So, last year, I noticed a couple co-workers started adding their pronouns to their email sigs. I decided to go full-out radical activist Christian love, found my work's "diversity allies" employee resource group, and joined it. Basically took my white-Christian-conservative-cisgendered-heterosexually-and-monogamously-married-homeschooling-parent self, and did a cannonball into the deep end of the woke pool, yelling "Here I am, who wants to cancel me?" My only tactic was to radiate the 2nd great commandment as well as I could. They were actually glad to have me - they were genuinely befuddled about why there were so many people on the right upset about so many things.
That was last August. I'm still alive, undoctrinated, largely unchanged. I've learned their language, and they've learned some of mine. I've survived sticking up for the rule of law and the Rittenhouse verdict. I've survived criticizing some parts of Kendi's "How to be an Antiracist" book, including it's founding principle. I've heard "I wish my mormon in-laws were as rational as [NT], we might actually be able to have a discussion that didn't turn into an argument." I've found some genuine friends - which surprises me as much as it surprises them.
Anyway, I think I understand the intent behind all the pronoun stuff. The thing to keep in mind, is the woke crowd will move heaven and earth just for an opportunity to make a transgender person feel welcome. Whether they know any or not. Whether they could actually recognize one or not. Whether the trans person wants to feel welcome, or would prefer to be left alone. So they stick their pronouns on things, and do their best to urge/press for/force cultural change to normalize it for everyone. Because they don't want trans folks to feel picked-on, or discriminated-against, or sad, or suicidal. *shrug* Well, neither do I. 2nd great commandment and all that. I don't think pronouns are gonna do much, but hey, they're doing them, and I'm doing me.