lestertheemt

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  1. Faded, My heart aches for you. I would strongly urge you to seek out help. You are hurting and you are mourning. The bishop can empathize, but in a lot of ways those who have not been where you have will not "get it". The only one who does is our loving Heavenly Father, He knows, He understands and He love you! (((((((((hugs)))))))))))) my dear sister
  2. hello. Dress and Appearance,” For the Strength of Youth: Fulfilling Our Duty to God, 14 “Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? … The temple of God is holy, which temple ye are” (1 Corinthians 3:16–17). Your body is God’s sacred creation. Respect it as a gift from God, and do not defile it in any way. Through your dress and appearance, you can show the Lord that you know how precious your body is. You can show that you are a disciple of Jesus Christ. Prophets of God have always counseled His children to dress modestly. The way you dress is a reflection of what you are on the inside. Your dress and grooming send messages about you to others and influence the way you and others act. When you are well groomed and modestly dressed, you invite the companionship of the Spirit and can exercise a good influence on those around you. Never lower your dress standards for any occasion. Doing so sends the message that you are using your body to get attention and approval and that modesty is important only when it is convenient. Immodest clothing includes short shorts and skirts, tight clothing, shirts that do not cover the stomach, and other revealing attire. Young women should wear clothing that covers the shoulder and avoid clothing that is low-cut in the front or the back or revealing in any other manner. Young men should also maintain modesty in their appearance. All should avoid extremes in clothing, appearance, and hairstyle. Always be neat and clean and avoid being sloppy or inappropriately casual in dress, grooming, and manners. Ask yourself, “Would I feel comfortable with my appearance if I were in the Lord’s presence?” Someday you will receive your endowment in the temple. Your dress and behavior should help you prepare for that sacred time. Do not disfigure yourself with tattoos or body piercings. If girls or women desire to have their ears pierced, they are encouraged to wear only one pair of modest earrings. Show respect for the Lord and for yourself by dressing appropriately for Church meetings and activities, whether on Sunday or during the week. If you are not sure what is appropriate, ask your parents or leaders for help. Alma 1:27 As you can see this comes from the "For the Strength of youth" but in reality it pertains to all members. Hope this is helpful.
  3. Even though my trial is very different from yours I feel that we both fear what others think, feel, say and act. In so many ways I honestly thought I was comfortable in my trial, yet I feel completely inadequate in several aspects of church. I feel for you in your struggle. What has helped me, is to realize that I can't control other people. I am who I am and you are who you are. Our place as members is to not to judge others but to help and build each other up. Find members that will build you up. You have an incredible story to tell. And those that you share it with will only be edified because of it.
  4. I have to agree w/ Applepansy about it being up to you on whether or not you start a medication. What people need to remember is that depression is a disease. Diabetes is treated w/ medication as is numerous other conditions so can depression be treated. I do believe that individuals need to make informed decissions about what ever path the choose to take (medication vs non). I too have dealt w/ negative thoughts and impatience. I have choosen to try herbal/nateral remadies instead of prescriptions. I have just started so I can't tell you if they are working, but I do feel positive about it!! Heavenly Father is mindful of you, He knows your strength and your weaknesses. **the fact that you know and are seeing a therapist is a huge step in the right direction!!!**
  5. First and formost I love, honor, and respect our men and women in the armed forces. What you need to remember is that the recruiter is trying to "sale" you on the marines. Many times they omitt important details. Put your trust in the Lord! If you choose to go on a mission the MTC will be your bootcamp. I wish you luck in what ever you choose. Semper Fi
  6. I enjoyed the poem..............i was almost 26 when I married, but i'm 36 married and no children. God has His time and His seasons. We need to enjoy what ever season we are in.
  7. I would love to come.........but I'm on shift on the current date. There is a small chance that dh and I could still make.
  8. I haven't read all the replies, but I took out my endowment when i was 22. No I didn't go on a mission and I didn't get married till I was almost 26. There were some very personal reasons why I went through. Looking back.......should I have waited....maybe but in so many ways i am so very glad that i did. You need to make that decission for yourself. Ask Heavenly Father and He will let you know if it is right the right time.
  9. I am not a runner. Never have been a runner, but I have a goal to run 6 miles by the end of June. Any tips, suggestions, or other means of assistance would be greatly appreciated. Am I giving myself enough time to complete this very insane goal of mine? Thanks!
  10. Instead of making the goal - - exercise more, I am planning on doing a mini-triathlon in June. With that goal in mind, I will be working out a lot more!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  11. I am so sorry that you are going through this. I haven't read all the replies but I strongly urge you to get law enforcement involved. I don't know where you are from and what the laws are there, but they need a paper trail. There are stalking laws that are there to protect you....please use them not only for your safety, but for your families as well.
  12. I tend to shy away from anything and everything that says "Mother's Day". I don't even go, because of the hurt that is associated with not being a mother. I cannot give you a recommandation of what to do, but I can urge you to be mindful to those that mourn on this day. Being motherless, childless in our midst is extremely hard and speaking from experience it brings many many tears.
  13. Check this site out.........it might be helpful: Avalanche List - Wasatch - Google Docs You can also find the above link at Home | Utah Avalanche Center Hope this helps
  14. It is just the two of us as well. Start small with an extra can here and an extra can there or when things go on sale. It first it may not seem like a lot, but it adds up quickly. Don't forget water! Another good place to start is creating a 72 hour kit for you and your husband.
  15. Thank you so very much for your sharing a glimpse into your life!! It has made you the person you are today. I have a deep love for ASL and the more you and your wife use it the more comfortable you will become with it. You have been truly blessed!! Welcome to the site and I look forword to hearing more from you!!
  16. We all have been given our trials and tribulations. Trust in our Heavenly Father and His plan. He loves you!
  17. Welcome to the site! My husband and I are unable to have children so I can attempt to understand in some small way.
  18. Paul, I'm not sure that I can add any further then what has already been said. I did however however want you to know that I "some what" understand. My sister was raised LDS and her husband is of a different faith. It is however, his family (not catholic) that is extremely close minded towards the LDS faith. All I can add is communicate, communicate and communicate. Pray together and pray often.