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Yeah, that's what I think Pam. I remember them telling me that it was a traditional dish, but I don't remember if it was traditional Cambodian or traditional family dish. Dagnabit, it was so darn good and I have no clue how to even try to recreate it.

Well, what you said here is simple to grasp. Now, please finish your thought. You mentioned polygamy before. So, if polygamy were reinstated, then what are you saying? That's the part where you lost me. How does living in a polygamous society differ in choosing a mate than in a monogamous society. Take pity on a mammal with more stomachs than brains.

Ahh, cousin Rupert. I miss him. Aunt always told him to keep a civil tongue on him....guess he just never listened.

Well, you're welcome. I checked out your links and unfortunately none of them sounded like it. The closest was probably the banana blossom salad, but even then it didn't sound quite like what she served. Thanks for looking.

Um, nope. Don't know you from Adam or Eve or whomever. I've heard this from people at work, on the news, in my family. It's something that has bothered me. I've heard it more now than I have before. But, I've heard it used again Pres. Clinton, Pres. Bush, and now president-elect Obama.

I don't understand that sentiment. If you are an American citizen, the whoever is elected as president IS your president. You may not have voted for him. You may not like his politics. You may disagree with him on every aspect of policies, actions, beliefs, etc. But in a democratic and Constitutional society, he is your president. If you don't like how a president is elected and can't support him (and I do not mean agree with everything he advocates/does), then do something to change the laws. When someone says "not my president," what, exactly, does he/she mean? As I see it, as long as you live in America, he IS your president.

English, Bulgarian, a *little Russian, a little American Sign Language (the official language, not the road rage kind), a little Spanish. I've actually taken classes in at least 7 languages. I absolutely love language of any sort. * little means I can/have squeeze(d) by in a situation

Tongues? Did someone call for me?

Huh? Meaning that if polygamy is brought back, then after that one special woman who doesn't judge, all the other wives will be judgmental? Or do you mean that if polygamy comes back, then you don't need to find any special woman? You lost me on that one, fiannan.

This is probably a long shot, but I thought I'd try. On my mission in Bulgaria, we taught a Cambodian family the Gospel. Not only were they a fabulous family, but the mother was a great cook. She made one dish that I especially liked. I do not know the name of it, but I'm hoping someone might know it or know someone who might know it. Because she wasn't in her own country, Pala had to improvise with the ingredients. From my memory, she used spaghetti and shredded cabbage and cucumber and chicken. The sauce was very light and about the color of chicken broth and had vinegar in it. You served it all in separate dishes and put the pasta on the bottom and topping it with the cabbage, chicken, cucumber, onions, and the sauce. Does this sound familiar to anyone? I would love the recipe as this is actually one of the best things I've ever eaten. Thanks!

Wow, Keith. I would love to attend this, but unfortunately I'm too far away. If you can get video/audio, would you also check into posting that on the internet? I'm sure there are many of us who would love to hear more. And there is a brother in my ward who is black and has been a faithful member of the church before 1978 and since. He's been an activist of sorts regarding blacks and the priesthood. I'll ask him this Sunday if he would be willing to contact you regarding this. I'm sure this is right up his alley. If he is willing, I'll email to provide particulars.

Here's the thing. I agree to some degree with Mattai's statement regarding the "men bashing" (my words, not his). Certainly, the GA's of the church have had some harsh words for the priesthood. And words to the sisters haven't been so harsh. And it gets tiresome on a local level to hear men (especially men of the priesthood) being put down by themselves or others. I hate hearing, "wow, he married up!" or "how did she agree to marry you?!" Stop the bashing! But, if we want to place the picky blame on anyone, then men and women are to share equally. I think that men are immature in their wish list for women. And I think women are just as immature. But, I'm not talking so much about YSA as I am about SA. That means men/women over age 30. Shouldn't we at least be more realistic and mature by that age and older? I cannot place blame of my single status on any one thing or person. There are many factors only some of which are my responsibility. Are there things that the Church can do? Certainly. Are there things I can do? Of course. Are there things that men can do to meet such a wonderful woman as myself? Yep. I just get tired of people trying to find blame all the time. If a good friend of mine wants to sit down with me to discuss their thoughts, advice, whatever on my single status in a loving manner, then I would welcome it. I certainly hope he/she wouldn't simply say it's because men are immature, or you don't have enough faith, or you want to be single. That just isn't helpful on any level.

Thanks ya'll.

I'm with you, checks. I don't believe in the "soul mate" idea. I think very few individuals were ordained to be married to each other (Adam and Eve come to mind). It is up to us to work at relationships rather than just waiting for "the one" to come along. There is no "the one"--rather several "the ones" IMO.

Isn't animosity different than criticism?

Hey, don't I know you from somewhere else?? I have considered moving, but I've never felt the Spirit telling me to move (as of yet). My bf is "strongly encouraging" me to move near her (which would place me in a more LDS rich area). I have some responsibilities here that consume me when thinking about moving. It's a little scary (for me) to think of those responsibilities and not be here to help. But, Matt, why don't those LDS guys move? I can tell you that LDS women in other parts of the country certainly don't keep standards like that (some do, but majority don't). And, let's be honest, are you sure the guys don't have high, nearly impossible standards for the women? I find it hard to believe that it's all the women's fault for being judgmental and none of the guys expect perfection from the women.

PC, if you don't mind me asking, how would you know if God re-opened the canon?

I knew one patient who received regular coffee enemas for her CFS. Not sure if that against the WoW....do you consume it when it's getting shoved up your whohaw? Have you looked on webmd? They have a lot of useful information.

On another forum, a poster said to me (after my comment on looking for a single temple worthy priesthood holder) that I was the reason for no marriage. Here's my response to the poster: So the reason I'm single is either 1) I'm not ready (whatever that means--realistically, who is EVER ready for marriage??), 2) I don't have enough faith or I'm not praying with faith or 3) I'm botching up God's plans. Yep, you got me. I've never prayed about it, especially not with any real faith, and I purposely sabotage any attempts or efforts of any single guy. Forget what the prophets have said on the subject. Of course there are things I've done wrong or am not doing right. But to tell someone who is single that "it's all your fault" is wrong, not helpful, and actually, unkind. So, just be careful....some people may not be as forgiving as I am. I shared this because I find this attitude by so very many people...married, single, divorced, etc. Please, if any of you think this, then keep your thoughts to yourself. If you are a good friend to a single person and feel you have some criticisms that would help the person, then by all means share them. But do so with kindness and love. I just have to roll my eyes at the thoughts of some people. So, when you see me, you can now know that I am unmarried solely due to my own screwed up life, lack of faith, and the thought of living/sharing with another is too much.

That sounds about right. Or I just call them all "hanging out with the zoo."

Thanks, Miss 1/2way. I feel the same. I actually budget for charity giving. I also take into account the little givings that happen unexpectedly (such as when a co-worker is sick or someone passes--we take up a collection for flowers). There is absolutely nothing wrong with assessing your personal life to make any changes you feel are necessary to help others. In fact, I think everyone would encourage it. But don't forget that God made this earth and the things in it to please the eye and bring pleasure to us. So doing things for yourself is ok and healthy and God-given.

Help me out here. You said to uphold the labor laws. Don't we have laws and lobbyists? Do you think that the basic labor laws would get repealed and not have the masses in an uproar? Isn't there already a grievance system? People can and do take their employers to court (lawyers are pretty open to filing any lawsuit). You've got me on the relocation one. I, too, hate seeing our jobs going to other countries because the cost of labor is so cheap. But I would imagine that if a company wants to do that, then they can "shut their doors" or find some loophole and do so. And my observations of unions (granted it's very limited...my dad was in one) is that they simply provide a way for employees to get a salary that is above what other similar companies give and guarantee their jobs. So a company I would imagine would be loathe to have a union and may choose to produce outside the country to avoid them (among other reasons). I just would think that

See, I've been at activities with kids running wild. I eventually catch them and either threaten their lives (usually the threat of kissing their face does it) or take them to their parents (and then tell the parents I threatened to kiss their face). It's harder while in Sacrament--I haven't figured out what to do yet. I've been sitting in the foyer lately and there is one lady who brings her kids out (while her husband sits in the chapel). The kiddos are young, granted, but she won't correct them with other than "please sit quietly." I don't have kids, but I've been around enough to know that a 3 yr old doesn't respond well to that entreaty.

Can some smart person explain to me the purpose, today, of unions? I understand why we needed them when they first formed. But now with the laws that we have in US, what is their purpose?