bibbitt

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  1. my heart goes out to you...i can relate to a lot of what you've said, but i want to offer my answers to your questions: "how much more can i take?" "how many chances do i need to give?" nobody can answer that for you...whatever your choice is, there are consequences, and the consequences of the choices you have in front of you are ALL difficult. i am sad to say that you are unfortunately caught in a no-win situation...i know that personally, because i've been stuck in a similar situation! i've decided to divorce, but i can tell you, it's definitely not the easy way out! it seemed clear-cut to me that staying with an abusive husband with a sexual addiction that he wouldn't admit to was slowly ruining ME and hurting my children, but it's not so clear to all the prying eyes and ready ears and tongues that want to make (and share) judgments about my decision it is NOT easy to get divorced (it shouldn't be, really), but in my experience, there is little sympathy for women who make that choice. i think it's necessary to feel ABSOLUTELY sure about your decision, whatever it is, because there will be days that you feel you are utterly alone with the spirit alone as your comfort of course, for me, i already felt that way...but now at least, i'm on a path that's leading toward peace and happiness dear sister, you need to put your heart on the line in prayer with your heavenly father. if you are earnest, he will answer that prayer, and it is my experience that as you follow through on the decision you come to with the aid of the father, he will then be by your side as you see it through to the end my thoughts and prayers are with you b