My oldest sister is biologically my mother's but not my father's. When my dad adopted her my parents were then sealed to her. The church told my parents that because of the sealing, that it was as if my sister was of his bloodline. Further, I'm not just donating eggs, I am donating 5 day old embryos. They are mine and my husbands. Yes another woman would be carrying them and raising them. There would in fact be little babies running around that look like my husband and myself. This is why it is important to me that the babies be sealed to their parents. Does that make sense to you? I've had other friends that have said if Heavenly Father wanted you to have more, you would by faith...I can't agree with that. I don't think Heavenly Father says to someone, you don't get to have children. If that were the case, IVF wouldn't have worked for us in anyway. It would have completely failed. Not only did it not fail, i have a huge number of children that I could never possibly have. I don't want to just throw them out! I could never do that to any of my children. I would rather help someone who can not have babies, There are a lot of couple that have unexplained infertility which means everything works properly, but they just aren't compatible to have children together. Do you say to these people, you just never get to have children...until the life hereafter? These babies are already made. I do see how it is like adoption. Do you say to a single mother who gave her child up that she is doing the wrong thing? I'm not single by any means, but if I don't donate these babies to someone they will die. I can't do that to them.