My personal opinion to you is simple: God made you who you are, work with what you have been given to the best of your ability. If it works carry on, if it doesn't adapt, alter, upgrade or delete it....but whatever you do....it has to be what you feel is right for you and you have to be comfortable with how you are.
In my experience I find a good prayer often helps me to be who I need to be with the vast variety of people I am around (being self employed as a kinda teacher i mix with all sorts). I pray that I will stand strong but humble and be my true self without being too much for the other person. Somehow (ya no, that spirit that we get) I always seem to know just how much to say, what not to do etc.
Being true to oneself is so much better and healthier than being a conformist.