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Here is some advice. Im married to a non mormon who was like you in attitude. We have been together and broke up over this attitude cause im not a typical mormon before being married after that break up it really opened up her eyes to what she was doing to me. Everything you think you know on mormons is wrong. im telling you right now that attitude will not bring him closer to you. All it did in my relationship was push me away. go ahead read wikipedia and anti mormon stuff but have you ever stopped and asked him?? You already said you in your post that you would be pressured in the church and they told you that you could tell them to leave you alone and you thanked him admitting it relieved some pressure showing you thought you knew something that turned out to be false. Look i know you love him but you have to be fair to him too. Its not all about you you you. Sometimes you will have to participate if he goes to church regularly?? Yes this requires unselfishness because you have to support him. If you son joined soccer and you stayed home for every game you would be showing you dont care what he does? Same thing with husband. What if someone is making fun of mormons and all you know is from wikipedia and they make fun of it. Will you participate or will you hesitate because your knowledge of his religions is on founded on what you wanted know for you. not for you and your husband sake. Will you misinform when asked about the church or will you tell them what they believe because if you tell them misinformation then it will make you look crazy for being in a relationship with a mormon but will be your fault for not informing yourself for your marriage. Does this make sense. Do you see where im going. when people say it will work or it does it is cause they accept the religion as a part of their life. if you think that you can shun it out 100 percent then you are lieing to yourself and him. hope i made some sense. This isnt a movie where two people fall in love that are from different sides of the spectrum. This is real life and real things must be thought of. there will be arguements and disagreements but how handle them will determine but like i said the attitude you have right now wont work and i feel like you are on the anti-mormon bandwagon. Hop on and make fun of your husband or learn and defend him. hope that helps

If you have Netflix then you have to watch the documentary TAPPED. It is about bottle water companies and how they are very powerful but there are no taxes that really apply to them. Municipal water is free so just cause they clean it doesnt mean it should also be free to them which 40 percent of companies that use municipal. So i assume that the goverment of fiji is saying hey you have to pay taxes like any other company does with that products even though it is from a spring. Similiar story below. Poland Springs water company(owned by Nestle) is getting spring water for free in maine. Literally hook and go. There are old old laws state they can do this and they are not giving back to the city in anyway and the county is trying to get a tax on that water to nestle so they can get something in return but Nestle is too powerful. I bet this is happening to Fiji Water. Did you know that Toronto banned bottle water products and are investing in the municipal system!! The citizens did this and their goverment listened. I wish we had uncorrupted goverment. If you watch the documentary youll see why. We need to do the same. When you buy bottle water you are paying 1900 times more the cost. Then when you give back that bottle in a recycling center you feel you have done your part for mother nature but you saved them money. Repeat process for a long time and you have not only made them billions of dollars but you also help privatize it. Sure the Water is PURE but you can do that at home with a filter. I ll try to reduce water bottle buying. Watch Tapped and gain your own conclusion. | Tapped the Movie - official site |

i really appreciate your input. I think and pray and i want to marry her but then my mind thinks what will people think of you and your family and i pull back. Is this normal? I feel like i would let every down but I mean i dont think god would do that. Love is love but what if my love would get her in the church but what if wont? Maybe i just need to make a decision. I do love her. I want to be with her. I think the only reason i havent married her is because im afraid of how my family will percieve me. I didnt go on a mission and marrying outside the church would put more on me. You know?

If there is one thing i know about girls is there love to play mind game. Like above hang back a little bit. Accept her train of thought. Now you have to kind of ignore her.Not totally but like if she wants to go to a movie or dinner just say 'that you have someone you going with. What im getting at is dont be at her every beckon. If you have things to do when she calls tell her that you would be glad to hang out after you finish doing those things. Woman are funny sometimes. Sometimes they want a mystery man. Don't be that into her as well When she wants a kiss pull back and say "If you want a kiss from you have to work for it" Then make her work for it. By be nice to you etc.. Dont get upset with a woman.when her mind is made up it is. YOu can try and change but accept that if she still is unsure and teasing you then just find someone else. Dont try to fix her.

Stand up.

The economy will come crashing down within the next three years. When did they end the patriot act?They improved it if anything.

i just think it is silly especially the hairdryer part. Everyone is entitle to what they believe but at some point who says no? I dont agree with this but there is nothing i can do but to say just that.

another one great one. We need more congress men like this and people like us support people like this because they are for us not the goverment This one is great too Half way through Dennis Kucinich gets upset telling them why they cheated the people who help us like teachers,firefighters,police office and why they got cheated out of money im telling you this one great. YouTube - Kucinich: This is NOT acceptable!

So whats this thread about? The fed reserve is no more federal then federal express. This is true as i have searched and searched on the web the evidence hat is clear. our goverment does not control the federal reserve. It is own by private bankers who yes do make money off of us and WAR but most importantly control our goverment. Lets see what is going on while everyone is into there'on demand' or direct tv watching entertainment or mainstream media which i do not listen too cause if they were to be trusted then this stuff would be on tv. This is what goes one while that happens. listen to the whole video then at 1:35 bernarke says that if we audit the fed economic problems will result. Hammering on Bernarnke by dennis kucinich with proof with emails.. This ones you have to watch. from Cspan YouTube - Congressman Kucinich Questions Ben Bernanke (Round 2) Bernanke getting mopped again by people who know how finances work

Well seems like the scriptures are filled everyday almost. Apostasy is taught before the coming of the lord. Whether atheist or not it cannot be denied that it is taught in the bible and is actually happen. I dont mean to offend any atheist on hear but i saw this headline and was like..What!!!??? Atheists choose 'de-baptism' to renounce childhood faith - USATODAY.com

I wish he didnt have to meet him but i know it is out of respect for our land and to show our side.There is an article of a prophet(i ll have to look) of where our prophet had to meet with elite people and he said that he felt an awful spirit with them and didn't want even shake there hand but he did to show our respect. Monson is a great man. If only the president really knew who he was talking to.

yeah i think that is what i need is time to myself. She is around 24 seven and gets upset if she is not with me. I love to be alone. i have since my mom pasted at a young age. Kinda of like a mechanism for being alone. there is a sense of peace when im alone. I am able to think.May be that is all i need is to be alone for awhile. I love her very much but i don't think she is the one for me but if i were to stay she would treat me great but she doesn't see things the way i do. That doesn't make our relationship bad but i guess the honesty im giving to you all i wish she would give to me. This is what is happening. She is pressuring marriage on me cause of her twin sisters. We have been together 3 years.I dont feel compelled to marry yet. We have a great relationship but when marriage idea comes into play i put the brakes on. Kinda of like Kate Perry says"you hot then cold" Im breaking under the pressure and want to say you know what im out.i feel i should be the one to ask out of my own heart. I feel like she is forcing the relationship into the direction she wants(woman have a good way of getting what they want)and it is pushing me away cause it is not what i want(i think i just answered myself on that last sentence that is crazy woot woot) Anywho but with that said Let me tell you all one more thing. I had a dream along time ago that i had kids and was playing in a pool and my wife was holding one of two kids outside the pool and here is the kicker..she was blonde. That other girl that i told you about is blonde. We have kept in touch since high school but but somehow we cant seem to get close enough to date again in our grown up state of mind. Just thought i throw that in there. I really think you all are right. i need down time from my current relationship and sitting her down and let her know what is up. I hate when people cry though and get mad and act like it is all my fault. Ohh well its got to happen someday right?

Yes Beefche i did have that problem but we broke up for a week and then she started listening to things i was saying about the church. Then got back together. i feel like i am rushing it or postponing it i cannot decide but really deep down inside im unsure and i feel like im just not doing things right and i ll never know who is right for me. I just dont know how i would tell my girlfreind that i dont want to get married soon and to stop harassing me about it. Ladies how could i do this? Im not a pig and i dont like to play the field but right now im not sure if im ready or unsure of things.. Im i wrong for loving someone but not letting them go i tried but she cannot let go of me. We met eachother at a time when we needed eachother cause we both go cheated on. Really what im i to do. I dont think im taking an escape route cause i really dont feel that is happening. When it comes down to getting married i feel the brakes. I just dont think it is normal. I dont know what to do im getting confused. I post different things on here cause i can depend on good answers and truth. My life keeps going on and i need advice.You know...

I have a woman i have been with. She is beautiful,loving,caring ,twin etc... she really is a great person. Marriage has been coming up all the time and i kind of say"yeah well get married someday" but i feel like im say it to make her be quiet. This has been in the last year now. Her twin sis got married and now it is getting hot and heavy and im going with it but in my heart i just want to say stop. I do love her very much but i dont know if this is cold feet or what. I have prayed but i feel like my emotions are getting involved and plus Has anyone gone through something like this.... I have been thinking of a person on and off in my head but i havent talked to her in a long time,3years, but lately she has popped in my head and i dont know why? I feel compelled to say hi never had the urge but lately it is stronger.I dont think it is an escape but i prayed to get be with someone who will make me happy and grow.Basically finding the right person and living in the right area for a family close to my family.This woman lives in AZ. Close to my hometown of Tx.Literally i have never thought of her like this she just recently popped in my head. I want to get married very soon and i want it to be with the right person. I just cant help that i cant make up my mind and it is frustrating. Does god want me to marry the girl im with or did he answer a prayer and wants me to contact the other girl?Isnt that cheating is what i tell myself. Can you see where my dilemma comes in? Im not bored with my relationship. Im just wanted to get married soon and start a family but what am i to do? i know my aunt and uncle who are members where about to get married with other people and they soon realized they were right for eachother and married eachother and they have gone on for over 25 years. I just want to make the right choice and im struggling. I dont have any family up here but my dad but my dad just says trust in the spirit or in the lord but he does say he is not the best person for advice cause he has been divorced. I dont want to be divorced. the perosn i marry is the person i marry. That is my goal and what i will work towards. help

AJ4U and others who need answers.Im gonna lay it down for you all. Im mean no disrespect but Why dont we see how amos a prophet became a prophet. Stop quoting scripture here and there. Read the whole Chapter and apply. I get sick of seeing people twist words he and there.Just read the the whole Chapter and stop giving the climax through verses. When you read a book to someone do you read the whole thing or only the good parts and explain the rest of the story. Come on grow up. Amos 3:7 Surely the lord God will do nothing,but he revealeth his secret unto his servants the prophets. NOt your servants. You dont choose who is a prophet the Lord. has already done that.YOu job is to listen and obey as well as have faith. Regarding Prophets Amos 7:14 Amos talking to Amaziah after being told to leave for the prophesy and sermons. Then answered Amos and said to Amaziah,I was no prophet,neither was i a prophets son;but i was and herdman,and a gatherer of sycomore fruit: Do you need more regarding Prophets.. Question?? When you pray what are you asking for? An answer Yes, but lets cut the bull and be honest cause what we really want is revelation. YOu can believe that god can give you revelation when you pray but you cant believe he can revelate to people he has chosen to lead his church. Maybe it is to keep people like us from argueing over these subjects,commandments and ordinances. Humans ruin everything. Why do you think we have a savior????????????? Cause you and i are imperfect. i can go all day with this . I mean seem like i have an attitude but i dont. I just to sugarcoat the point.I get to it and leave. Sure there is more but i thought this was important.

Everyone flirts but i guess i dont flirt the way you think. It more like making some one laugh. I dont touch her or anything like that or play fight nor have i used an verbal flirting such as "you look great today" blah blah blah. I just make her laugh. I like to make alot of people laugh. I love my girl and thats why im venting cause people misconstrue simple communication skills. It is like you cant be friends with someone because its like every person you meet has to be something to you and it is stupid. That is what im most venting about.I can see how people can mess up. I have problems but im dealing with them but she went overboard when she says she thinks of me.I didnt think it was like that. You know.

She is somewhere out there.. dont be discourage. It wont happen quick but remember it is like fishing. YOu might catch one but they might resist. You have to work and bring them in.Some men just let go of the rod when the fish resist. Dont do it. Hang on and reel her in by doing nice gestures. Let them know amd when the past comes up tell them over time you will let them know but right now its all about her. :)

If i was him i would want you to sit me down and talk to me. I have been like this.All i wanted was someone to listen to me. I wanted someone to help me too. Talk to him like a friend.Ask whats wrong and what at school wants him to do these things. etc etc..These times that we are in now are so hard for the youth..It is harder than ever.

Okay i dont know where this needs to go but i have to vent.Not necessarily advice but input could be used for all. Why do married people cheat?I ll tell you what got me to this thread im making. So i am a manager for a big company and we had to hire associates for remodel we are undergoing. Well there are a couple of cute woman there is one particular that is cute blah blah blah right? Well we joke around and stuff flirt he and there i think it is innoncent as i have a girlfriend myself. I havnet said anything out of the ordinary as every one is joking around about who is hot,cute,best eyes. who is the funniest.This is all between the associates who voluntarily tell us the managers to cut up. Well i should of clued in. As this one girl(we will call jesse for naming person)says "i voted for you" and ask for what"hottest guy" im not gonna lie i got a little flattered who wouldnt right. So from then on we give our orders get things done cut up with eachother and i cut up with all my associates to make them feel good about work. Well three month later we are working and out of no where she cracks a joke about me.I forget what she said but she says"you dont get it" and i say "get what" Then im like "Oh.. i get it i think" she says" i really like you and cant stop thinking of you while at home.I have never had these feelings for another guy.I think about you all the time even during(you know what) so i say "Wait a minute you married. This isnt something to be taken lightly. Your married and i have a girl. What ever the situation may be in your home i wont put you or I in the position to commit such an act. I dont know you husband but i know that he and you dont deserve to be hurt and i am know home wrecker. There is always a point in a relationship where your will decide what you need to do. Like i said i wont ever put you or me in a position to cheat. It is wrong. i am religious and there is a line to draw. That is the line. Once your married your committed until you decide what to do with you life.I dont want drama." After that is was time for them to leave a clock out. I passed her by and she says that i looked sexy. I feel flattered but you know what i can see where people cheat. Satan is telling me to do it but i feel another spirit saying no!!! I know just one wrong decision and i would be on the wong side of the fence. SO this is what i want to say to people like this. Stop being selfish!!! Stop falling into a mindset that love and marriage is perfect and will pan out like the movies or the stories you here. IT wont. Love is work. Period. There is always going to be vultures lurking after you. There is always going to be better looking people but if your intention with your current partner are to grab the prettiest girl your are lusting and my friend will lust more. Pick your partner correctly and you wont have this problem. People married now cause of lust. There is no love or cause they have to..Stop doing that. And if you are a cheater now stop it.No body deserves to be hurt cause you want that new toy in the toy store. What happens with toys that come out years later.Are you going to collect them every year. come on grow up!!!!!!!!!!!!

sigh this is not good

Machinations is all i can say. We are heading down a path of destruction no matter what. The constitution needs to be restored but like Joseph smith said one day the the constitution would hang by a string. Now you can see slowly beginning.I hate to see what it would be like all inactive. This land will be cursed with evil,not that it isnt already but it will be alot worse. I dont follow politics anymore. Its a game the they knows how to play very well. Congress has been captured by satan. Its done...game over

im so sorry just remember god does not control people. He may have told you husband to stop throught the holy spirit but in the end it is you husband fault not god

I think it was just a way to keep things going while you were there.i have never heard of that either.

i maybe too late but ihave been in your shoes.I apostate and it sucks. I ll tell you why? You may leave the church but you will never forget the church. Why?I figured it out. It is cause we have been confirmed the gift of the holy ghost. Every now and then you will remember things of the church when you visit with other churches. I have visited some. Nothing is wrong with them except you begin to see things that you where taught and how it really does seperate other churches not just with prophets but also Christ teachings. IM ignorant in my ways and i dont live a perfect lds live but i have made some poor decisions cause i was on the way out and i figured i know more than the lord or that i have to seperate myself from him and his teachings because i have to find myself.Well i have learned that is selfishness because Christ says we have to loose ourselves in him.That means we must accept him totally. I have learned it the hard way.I didnt serve a mission and my current state does not allow me to go to the temple and i dont feel worthy of going to church.I am in a pickle cause of sin.I blame it on myself. I have read many anti literature but you know what alot of it was political. The stones you talk about are real.They are even in the bible talk about. Everything you doubt can be found in the Bible or book of mormon.Mormon anti-literature is purely written by satan.The events happened but there is not real account one must guess. That is a fact!!!! I have learned that there is a Church in the bible and if you read its structure you would begin to see many truths that you are denying as i have. Then you begin to gain a testimony yourself. I feel that cause you learned of the back round of mormonism you think that it was hidden.It is not but it plays no key to your salvation or churches role. im in and have been in your shoes. YOU will be happy but its not the happiness you would imagine. YOu are doing more damage than good and i tell you this from an apostate.I am and im trying to change that. im embracing it and making difficult changes. I did it my way and i suffered. Dont make that mistake i have? the on my way out opens a whole gate of sin inside. "All the water in the world, no matter how hard it tried, could not sink a ship until it got inside," "All the evil in the world and every kind of sin,could never damn a human soul. Until we let it in" Dont let it in.It will damage you as it has damaged me.As a member who wishes to be sin free and go back in the church and marry a woman who will love me for who i m spiritual and physically. Please you are about to make a mistake.Read the teachings in the bible and the book of mormon and other books.They have answers as well as lds.org. Put the topic in the search engine and get information from the first source.All other information is strained and filled? If you are so keen on finding truths do this? Read the bible only. Right down the structure of his church and its ordinances and every other key thing you find. Then take a look at religions and you will see for yourself that there is not church like the lds in structure and believe. Period. And many churches have taken our ideas in church structure and applied it to there church. I have seen it many times. Dont forget to pay the preacher who gets payed ok. (not all do i know) Ohh and if you dont like the way things are in church.Why dont pray and have faith that you may worthy to recieve a calling.Maybe he will give you one that may help change the people in the church. i have been to many wards that the bishop does need to tell the ward to accept all who come in and not be so distant towards return members no matter what they have or haven't done. i have been in your shoes. Im an apostate myself. Thats my .02 cents.

id buy all the parts to fix and have a shop paint it.Give him the instruction manual from autozone and tell him since he did the damage he has to fix it. Thats better than cleaning the house. Keep the keys on you while he does it.