Soul,
There is one thing that Christ gave and that is our freedom to choose. We can accept or reject his will for our lives. Drinking coke, birth control, cleavage, .. all of these things just distract from the truth. It is my own humble opinion that we have the freedom to choose life or death. This is what Christ came to this world for to save those that are lost. Not for the Pharisee who said he had no sin , not for the crowd who wanted to stone the woman for having several men, Christ said, he that is without sin cast the first stone". Anyone who passes judgement on you just because of attire or otherwise better look inward and not outward by the way this also means they are not looking upward to God. You..keep going to church and pray for those that think this way. God doesn't look at appearance he looks at the heart.--this is something a human can't do. Many may keep small rules and regulations while the major ones , like coveting a neighbor's wife, lying, cheating ,watching porn (studies say this is something that runs rampant among religious people) and premarital sex..another biggie..the list goes on and on all of these are sin and sometimes go unseen. Just do as your heart leads u and don't mind nobody else.