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Octuplet Mother Happy To Be Single Mom Posted Feb 3, 09 5:01 PM CST in US (Newser) – The mother who recently gave birth to octuplets did so determined to raise them as a single parent, Us magazine reports. "She did have boyfriends. She did have someone who really wanted to get married," said the mother of Nadya Suleman. But those relationships just didn't work out. "She just wanted to do whatever she is doing by herself," said Angela Suleman. Nadya's decision to have in vitro fertilization even though she already has six kids didn't sit well with her parents. "Her dad was extremely upset at her when he found out she did that again, and so was I," said Angela. Still, she considers her daughter a good mom. "She loves her children and she tries to provide the best she can for them." As for the new names, don't ask Grandma. "I really don't know all the names—there are quite a few. I know everyone has heard about her and watched her on tv. Here is a link to more stories. She has been offered 1m to do porn and they brought her kids into with medical coverage. The link is below Octu-Mom Offered $1M to Do Porno - Gossip news | Newser Here are some other links Octu-Mom, Grandma Face Off in New Vid - Gossip news | Newser Octuplets' Birth Certificates List No Dad - Gossip news | Newser I am just wondering what everyone's opinion is on this subject. Personally I think she needs mental help. I really do. She in my opinion is unfit for these babies. They deserve a home with a mom and a dad. They deserve a family whom can provide for them. I just think she made a really bad choice. I have 2 children and let me tell you they run me ragged. My husband and i raise them together and that is really tough. I wonder how she thinks she can handle 14 children when most mom and dad family's know how tough it really is. Let alone she has no money to raise them. I think she is living in a fantasy world. They said on the news she is an obsessed fan of Angelina Jolee and is you look at her face you can see how obsessed. I worry about the welfare of the children. What do you all think?

Ty I am so very Proud that he is my son my ray of Sunshine. He was clinging to me today. he was walking around the attached himself to my leg as I was cleaning lol

Oh and Missing Something. Ty so much . I do know the standards but I guess this is my personal choice. I am not saying that in a rude way so please don't think I am . I am thanking you for your love and understanding. Also I will post pictures Of Kaden's Cakes and His Birthday . Yay :)

Thank you all again for the support. Things are going pretty good. I have been pretty stress free since I have been making changes. I admit I slip up once in a while with swearing but I am getting better. I am really trying. I have found that I am now doing more things with my kids. I am not online as much I knw this is just the begining. But Also I have barely watched any tv. I Have begun praying again at night. I am taking baby steps but I know I can do it and get to where I need to be. I am so inlove with the changes I have made and will continue to make. I am laying with my kids more and doing projects with my daughter as well as reading to both of them. When we do watch tv we watch family movies together. Tonight Emily helped me make a quick stitch quilt for my MIL it is her easter gift from us. I think I can finally say I am happy again. My hubby and I have been connecting more. i haven't been shutting him out as I have been. He is not amember nor does he want to become one. That is ok with me. i don't want him to be pushed into something he isn't ready for nor wants. I know we won't be sealed but atleast I get to have him with me now. I also believe that the love we have will be forever even in death. We can be sealed on the other side I am sure. I am just really happy. i know it has been only a little while since I have made changes, but the changes have has a huge improvement . I love my family and Life so very much . I am so thankful:)

I believe in them. I have had things happen in the past that makes me know they exist. I don't dwell on them nor do I provoke them. I say if we can exist and good and evil can so can spirits:) I will say EVP's freak me out. ( I am a big fan of ghost hunters, I am just not Crazy enough to go after them lol.)

Personally I think we are all on a mission for life. No matter what we are always learning seeking and finding. So I think it should be as I am living my mission:)

That is a great Ideal. I never thought of that. Thank you so very much. Wow ty again:) I will be writting them both starting this yr. I can't thank you enough:)

I am so very excited that my sweet Prince Kaden Alexander will be turning 1 on Friday. He has grown so much. He is such a good boy and a Mama's boy as well. I look at him and I fill so full of Joy knowing I grew him within me and I gave him life. He is my second child my daughter being the first. She has grown as well. She will be 5 April 10th. I am so truly blessed to have 2 beautiful Healthy happy babies. They are the lights of my life. Ok on with it. As i look back at all of kaden's newborn pictures , I feel my eyes fill with tears. He is such a gorgeous boy. I know some may say it goes by quickly. Well I honestly feel his first year of life seemed so long. Instead of it being quick I feel as if it were a lifetime:) I have enjoyed every minute of it with him. His cakes are ordered presents bought and wrapped. I admit I did go a bit over board but you know what he is my only son and I can't have anymore. His 1st birthday is a big big deal. I am so blessed to have him in my Life. Sorry I had to share. I am enclosing 2 pictures of Kaden so You all can see how Tiny he was and how big he is now:)

That is Bright. I was going cross eyed looking at it. whoa lol But seriously my eyes feel funny now lol

Thank you all so very much. I am so glad that you all can relate to the issues life deals us sometimes. There is always a choice a right and a wrong clearly:) I admit I do still have my piecings I have 11 total . Not any that are horrible. In my opinion they are cute. I am one to believe that I will be judged upon the works I do, not what my body looks like. I was so young then and easily pushed around . If I could go back and do things over I don't think I would to be honest . Those horrible mistakes have made me a wiser person today:) ty all again so very much.

Ty both so very much. I really need the support to move on and be the women I use to be.

Hi my name is Chrissy I am a 27 soon to be 28 yar old mommy to a beautiful 4 soon to be 5 yr old girl named Emily Rose. I also have a beautiful going to be yr old baby boy named Kaden Alexander. I have been a mamber for many years up until 3 yrs ago when things in my life came crumbling down. I am going to post the blog I posted on my myspace page to my friends in here. it is a lot to type and I am needing to make dinner so it will be a copy and paste for now. I hope to meet many of you and I hope I can get on my way and find the path within my life...... my story I have been thinking alot lately about who and what I have become, since I left the mormon church 3 years ago. I was a great mom and wife as well as a great person when I was a member and a sunday school teacher. I prayed to god everyday. I was very devoted. I prayed until the day I got a phine call from a man whom was in the brotherhood of the church. He told me I was a bad influence on my daughter and other peoples children because I had gotten my eyebrow pierced. He went on to tell me that I could no longer be a sunday school teacher because the parents of the children I taught thought I would ruin their children. I was told that as a member of the mormon church I should take out my piercing and repent in order to seek forgivness from god. I was no longer welcome or seen as sister Farrell of the church. Like clock work everything started to fall apart. I lost Joey and my baby on July 6 2006. Joey and I began to grow apart as well. I started drinking al;ot. i would wake up and drink. I became a horrible mother. Then the big split happened. I have fallen since then and have hit rock bottom. I have always had an issue with drinking and drug use. I started swearing like a sailor. I started wearing slutty clothes and acting to get the attention from guys that I clearly did not need. I have fallen so far from the graces of god. So much hurt pain and hatred I have had flowing through me. In my opinion I became everything I feared trash. I was my worst enemy and my worst dream come true. When I moved out of Joey's I started going to the bar alot. I was drunk all the time. I was not a good person. a year later Joey came a rescued me from a dangerous situation with a man whom threatened my life as well as my daughters. I tried to leave him so many times but he was abusive and i had lost my way. I was so depressed and run down. Then the day came that he said if you walk out that door your daughter will be without a mother. I went cold. I honestly believe he would have done something to me. He is that sick in the head. All I could think was of him killing me infront of Emily . Then I thought what would he do to Emily if I was dead. She would have been a witness. I was so scared for our lives. Well When he was at work I called Joey and he came with a Uhaul. We got everything of Emily's and mine out. We left finally we were free. We have never looked back. We avoid penn yan at all costs. Joey was my hero as he had always been. Joey asked me to remarry him again and be his wife. I said yes he is the love of my life. He is the only one who understands me and the pain I have suffered. As we are going on 2 yrs of being remarried alot has been flowing through my mind. I want to be that mom I use to be. I am not the same mom I was 3 yrs ago. Nor have I been the same wife. I was an outstanding person. I had so much love for many people. I cared for others.I was happy within myself. So much anger has been riding within me upon the past. I decided to go back to church and take my children with me. Emily and Kaden need the religious values in their lifes. I need those values as well in my life. It's only when you jit rock bottom you realize your family and yourself deserve more from life. I needed to take that plunge and get back to being me. I am not a nasty person nor a mean person as I have become. I handled myself once with class and grace. I was never angry nor sad. I don't want to be angry or sad. I want to be me. I want to be the Chrissy I once was. I have a long road ahead of me but the rest of the road will guide me onto the path I need to be on. I do need god and Jesus Christ in my life. I have vowed to never drink again never touch drugs again( which I haven't touched drugs in over 3 years.) I have vowed to not swear anymore. Nor let my anger get the best of me. I have vowed to dress appropriatly and classy not slutty or in hoochy mama clothes. I don't need to crave the kind of attention I get when I dress like that. I don't need any attention except from my husband. I vow to never fall in with the crowd of people I did when I started drinking. No offence to anyone but I am not like that. I was a great person and people didn't like me because I was so nice and that I didn't drink. I can have a great time being me. If you can't accept the way I was or the way I will become again then I don't need you in any part of my life. Please remove yourself from my page. i will not be going to bars either sorry everyone whom wanted me to go out with you, that is not me. I am not into going to bars nor drinking. If you would like to hang out with me then great we can hang out at my home if you like order dinner and watch chick flicks but we need to keep it pg here. I am going to be stopping all swearing around my children. If you have a problem with that as well then you don't need to be around my kids or myself. If you really value me as a friend then you respect the choice I have made to better my life and to enrich myself and my loved ones with the values of the gospel. i will not push my beliefs on you as I expect none of you to put down my religion or beliefs. My family deserves to have the mom I once was. They are worth the sacrifices that have destroyed me in the past. Infact I can't really say that they are sacrifices, I will not miss any of it. I need to work on me. This is the time. Love you all.- oh and many may be wondering what happened to the brother whom called me and tore me down. Well he no longer is at our church here and he was in no way to say anything like that to me let alone anyone. No one felt any ill will towards me.