Ouch, I am guilty of starting a few of those threads. Yes, as an adult convert to the church there was many things I was not sure of and "praying about it" was not something that came easily to me and my husband. I had no idea of "Mormon Culture." I thought everything I heard was a rule...written in stone and that has not been the case. Perfect example is the "sabbath day posting" I put up today. I just don't know and wanted to get some thoughts. So, for those that are long-time church members please be patient with us "newbies" try to understand where we are coming from.