dahebert

How would you go about telling her all this

Is she ever going to be able to go to the temple with her new husband aith all th inappropriateness surrounding their union

shes 30 was in a very unhappy marriage with a man who knew everything, a true narcassist, ran everything, purchased everything and made her feel inferrior. She made the cholosal mistake of having an affair with someone she knew in high school and has carried a torch for her for 10 years. (Of course there was no contact until the last month or so). The affair began 6 months ago and shes been excommunicated for it but is continuing the affair. I am her mother and have always taken the stance of, when you do things right you recieve the greater prize, just like our heavenly father does. Well the divorce came through last week and she is feverishly planning a wedding for Nov. 14th with all four of her kids, 3 bridemaids 3 ushers her in a wedding gown parents in tux, but we nixed that. We are appauled. But we have the unenviable position of being the only adults knowing all the salacious details and yet she wants me to help with the wedding plan...with a great big smile! I am happy shes getting married rather than just living together, but he was a drinker and she loves immediate satisfaction,,,a great mix for trouble. Now aside for all that, at this point I just want to be left out of the planning, get a nice dress, also a nice gift and know when and where to congratulate her for legalizing this whole mess.