Thank you. We aren't sealed yet, been married 5 years and I finally got my temple recommend and he has the affair around the same time. He says he wants us to be sealed and thats what we always worked for but I just don't know anymore. He went to Bishops court and after meditation and prayer the council decided no action would be taken except 3 months no sacrament, or prayer in public and to read BOM and give priesthood blessings at home. They felt his sorrow and felt he was repenting as he should and it was all spiritual and emotional. He is able to get his recommend back now. I know he is sorry and all and is repenting, I just can't move on. I NEVER thought he would do this, there was no warning and he actually was cheated on his first marriage and they were sealed. He swore he would never put me through what he went through. But he did, and now I can't help but think, "never say never" and he did it once he could do it again.