coral

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  1. I will admit i have watched movies that are all ratings, here in the uk our ratings are a lil diffrent, we have U, PG, 12+, 15s, 18s so im guessing R ratings is 18s? i have watched loads, if its a bit over the top i tend to turn it off but thats personally choice. i agree with the comments of how ratings have changed over time. something that i may class as a bit to far fetched to be in a film for lets say a 12+. actually even PG movies can be a bit much for children. i tend to be careful of what my children are watching, ive sat here a few times and the kids have been watching cartoons on tv and ive turned it off cause some stuff can be shocking to be honest.
  2. i have a cat (8 months old tabby) called hurley and i have a staffordshire bull (2 years) called kaz
  3. Oh i am on farmville, i went through a stage where i was on it all the time, now i go on when i remember, but my mum is a addic, you should see her farm, its massive and so crowded
  4. i think being judgmental. that is one thing i hate the most. i know many people who judge others over things like the way they look/dress/talk/things they have done in their past. i would not want to be judged by someone,
  5. I think its ones choice to drink or not, but personally i would not encourage someone by serving them alcohol
  6. some good points there lemme comment on some of them :) my intuition tells me i need to step in before it gets out of control actually now i think about it, i guess it is a good point. i guess truley boys being boys isnt an excuse for fighting each other. i do wonder why boys have it in them the need to prove who is stronger and better then the next boy. good point, id rather the parent be the one to tell them first hand though good advice u gave your step son. i have told my boy's to ignore him, no matter how much he trys to annoy you. i guess its easier said then done.So i went to church on sunday and his mum was not there, but the boy was there with some adults im not sure who they are. i told my son's before they went in to ignore or if he does something tell an adult right away, and i will try get word to the adults who are with him today. when my children came out of class they told me what this boy had done. he chucked things across the class, swore at everyone, jumped on the tables, taking toys of kids and just being rather naughty. this boy did all this infront of all the primary teachers, im not sure how they delt with it to be honest as my children didnt know them selfs, but they did say their primary teachers was having a hard time getting him to settle. and he found it all rather funny. i tryed looking for the adults he was with but its seems after sacrament they went of some where, so im not sure what was going on there. i spoke to the missonaries, and they was pretty aware this boy misbehaves. and from wot they have said his older bro whos 14 is pretty much the same, its funny coz my brother knows this other boy (little boys 14 year old bro) and he said they go to same school and this boy smokes, but i was a little confused into why he stands up and does sacrament with the other teen boys, i thought if u smoke then u are not ment to patake in sacrament? but anyhow, hopefully i can speak to his mum next week.
  7. hello, welcome to the forum, have fun :)
  8. thanks everyone, theres some great advice there. I am going to have a chat with his mum tomorrow hopefully, i will keep u posted how it went :)
  9. i agree, i think all kids need to be tought how to treat others. and i think that will be my next option is to talk to the bishop if things dont go well with speaking to his mum, i think all 3 (yes including my kiddos) need to know it is NOT ok to behave in a threatening way, esp in church. and i also agree im happy for parents to come to me if my children have been behaving in a bad way
  10. thankyou :) i agree boys will be boys, and i hope they can sort it out by them selfs. i guess im very protective of my boys as is any parent. I just feel that im trying to teach my children thats its not ok to hurt other children. i think this sunday i will speak to his mother, i just dont want to sound like im pin pointin it on her son as being a trouble maker (although she has admitted that he is hard work) i will tell her that i have already talked to my eldest son and told him he was wrong for retaliating in the way he did. i just hope she dont feel im starting trouble and speaks to her son
  11. Its so sad that women (and men) go through such horrid things like this. My childrens father mentally and physically abused me for 6 years. I always said when i was younger id never allow a man to raise a hand to me and if they did id walk right away, but its easier said then done. He made me feel that i was worthless and could not cope by myself and no one would ever want someone like me (a single mother) i used to be a happy go lucky girl always bubbley but he knocked that right out of me. he enjoyed a drink but could not handle it what so ever. personally myself i didnt like to drink, so we clashed with each other. he had nasty temper on him and would flip out over anything and everything. for reasons im still not sure off. but his reason for losing his temper like he did was that he was in the army and all the years of putting up with the army took its toll on him. he would never accept that the drink didnt help his temper. anyways after 6 years it got to bad that he wouldnt think twice about hurting me in front of his children, 1 day i had enough and managed to end it. it was the hardest thing ive ever done. but it has made me a stronger person. i have my confidence back and my children are happy
  12. Hi all :) So this isnt a major issue but im unsure how to go about sorting this. I have recently started going back to church and my 2 sons (age 11 and 8) are loving it. but for the past couple weeks a young boy the same age as my eldest son has been pretty mean to both my boys. 2 weeks ago during their lessons in primary class this boy chucked a stress ball at my son's head im not sure if a adult was made aware of this but my son choose to ignore this. but last week this same boy pushed and took my youngest son;s toys from him and wouldnt give them back, so my eldest son (being the protective brother) went and took the toys back and gave them to his bro, which resulted in this boy to go to my youngest son and pushed him into a wall. and hit him, Now my eldest son did wrong and chased this boy and tryed to push him back which he got cought by a teenager who told him not to do things like that. i have explained to my son that although i understand he was trying to stick up for his little brother he should not result in chasing this boy and that he should have told a adult (one of the teachers or any adult around) and come to me so i could deal with it. Now, i know this boys mother (not his real mum but she looks after him) but im not sure about how to go to her and speak to her about this. only reason im not sure is because i knew her from the past (she has only been a member of the church for 5 months) and she has a past that isnt so pleasent and although im sure going to church has helped her, i still feel a bit nervous to talk to her with out offending her. i dont want to course a problem but at the same time i dont want my children feeling uptight or scared to go to their lessons. How would you handle this situation?
  13. it could be a number of things, but id say go speak to a doctor. do you have any problems with youre thyroids? as i know underactive thyroids can cause the hair to thin out
  14. No i dont think i could marry more then one husband, and i dont think id be very comfortable with having my husband have another wife
  15. coral

    Hello!

    hello, welcome to the forum :)
  16. i dont like rude people, ive been brought up to be polite and it cost nothing to be nice. i also dont like late-ness, i hate people being late to meet me, i hate being late for anything, i feel all irritable if this happens
  17. thats awesome hun, have a great time :)
  18. 1. What is your favorite color? prettyful pink 2. Where were you born? Greenwich, London 3. Did you serve a mission and if so where? i didnt serve a mission 4. Married or single? 5. What is your favorite food? chinese yum yum 6. What is your favorite movie? i have way to many but my fave at the moment is twilight and new moon 7. Who is your favorite band? dont have a fave band 8. Do you have children? yes i have 2 boys 9. Who is your favorite author? S. meyers and J.L. Smith 10. What is your hobby? i love reading right now, its all i do :) 11. What is your idea of the perfect vacation? Any where hot with a beautyful sandy beach 12. What is your favorite city? London 13. What is your favorite sports team? chealsea football team 14. What kind of car do you drive? i dont drive 15. What was the first car you owned? i have never had a car 16. What calling do you hold in church? none at the moment 17. If you could travel anywhere in the world that you have not been to before, where would it be? America to see my daddy 18. What is your favorite tv show? Eastenders, lost, friends 19. What is your current favorite restaurant? nandos 20. What event in your life gave you the biggest rush? giving birth to my babys and holding them for the first time
  19. I had lunch with a pickle because I'm cool like that