dizzlertwizz

Thank you all for the advice. I appreciate it greatly and I really hope this works out for the best. I'm going to meet up with him discussing this subject. If he doesn't want to respect my decision I am going to break things off. I think I would be better off with someone who isn't going to let me fall right and wants the best for me correct? Thank you so much Funkytown :).

I have an amazing relationship with this guy. He's smart, went to college for two years, member of the church. I love him more than I ever had loved anyone before in my life and we talked about marriage and such and it will happen soon. Problem is, I'm starting to get these feelings of wanting to do more with him than just kissing and cuddling and hugging. He's starting to get these feelings too. We haven't even gone farther than kissing. He wants more than that though and questions if something else more happened would I let it happen and go through. I honestly told him I don't know.. and I really don't. He says he wouldn't mind at all if he did. He is a great guy, but I don't know why all of sudden a man who wanted to wait till marriage decides to do this now. He doesn't want to get married until in 2-3 years. I don't think I can wait that long for him and be able to keep my standards or virtues with him. What should I do?