Hello Sheps100,
Nice to meet you. I sort of hear what you are saying but I do not know what it is that the church is reacting against. If someone is acting in a sinful way, does that mean that you can't call a spade a spade? Would you still call that inappropriate judgementalism? Is your whole complain only that it is reflected poorly on you or is there a deeper issue there?
Thanks,
Dr. T