This is also a fear. To me, her dad's "vision" doesn't make sense for a couple reasons... First of all, Why? Why have this vision? Does telling a 14 year old girl that she will one day marry a Mark help her or cause tons of problems? It has created tons of problems in her life. The fruits of this vision have been stress and arguing with her family. Second, if this revelation really is true, why not keep it to himself until it happens? That way it can be faith building. Instead, he uses it as a way of controlling who she dates. I have had her get to know my parents, who are totally normal and not fanatical. She can see the difference in my parents attitude and that of her parents. My parents have told us, "Whatever suits you. You have to live with each other, not us. This is your decision." I can see guiding you child with principles, but there are no principles being taught here other than "follow Dad and don't disobey." If I treated her bad, was unworthy, in debt, selfish, controlling, needy, or anything else concerning, I could understand her parents saying, "_____________, we think they way he acts is a red flag. Let's talk about it." Instead, I am loving, giving, caring, ambitious, active, mature and a good provider. Her parents don't have a leg to stand on. My bishop is ready to strangle her dad.