wonderwoman1115

the funny thing about this is that if you just trust in the lord he will always provide a way and it will always be "doable" just in a different way. he loves you unconditionally.. and wants nothing but the best for his princesses. we need to remember we were sent here to live a life for him. not in a year or couple months but now. if you have your patriarchal blessing it would remind you of the love and promises he has blessed you with.. you are a daughter of a king. royalty, do you think that royalty now on earth will jeperdise there chances of obtaining the thrown when they know the treasures there going to be blessed with after there crowned. no way. there going to do everything right to reach that goal. sad thing for them is if they mess up they cant repent and all will be forgotten (in a worldly sense) the media will destroy there chances before they can become clean. we are blessed with an amazing gift of the atonment. he died for us. he suffered for our sins. because he loves us.. wickedness never was happiness. and waiting till "your life is in order" is just nonsense. because saten will do everything in his power to prevent order in your life. leaving you persuaded that there will never be a right time to change. dont be foolish and just do it. walk away from the problem before its too late.

i have gone through exactly what your going through i understand that the guy your with probably seems like the most amazing thing in your life.. but you need to right now get over it. i know your justifications for it are very convincing but thats what the devil wants you to think. you have an amazing future infront of you. are you planning on marrying this guy if so than he should be making you a better person not bringing you down. in my situation i actually turned addicted to him in a way where never wanted to let him go becuse of the warm feeling he left me and the feeling of belonging somewhere to someone was enough for me. i was with my guy for a year before i decided to give it up. after i did i realized that what i thought was happiness with him really wasnt it was actually bringing me down as a person. i aw sooo much happier now than i ever was with this guy. what i think you need to do it either A) dump him and move on get cleaned up and find a real man who can take you to the temple. or B) let him know you want to change clean up and if he doesnt like it than you just have to go with plan A. you will seem empty inside and depressed but that next time you open those scriptures or pray to your heavenly father you know without a doubt that what you did was right and you will never look back. you may not want to do this not but you cant always avoid the elephant in the room. heavenly father knows you. he knows your heart and your intentions but its up to you to act upon it. hell always make a way for you to return to him but wont force you into the gates of heaven. i wish you the best of luck and i hope after you pray you'll make the correct decision..

so i am an lds young woman 19 of age and i do not know if suing is against the church.. my boss has fired me.. and he couldnt give me a reason why he fired me. because there is no reason why i did nothing wrong. i was one of the best workers there. he then hires a ton of new people to take over my job. which have no idea how to run the shop. i know its all bout forgiving and forgetting,, but what if they really wronged me as in went against the law for it am i supposed to let them just slide and not do anything about it.. if you can help me as soon as possible it would be greatly appreciated. thank you -Erica

you need to be upfront with him. you need to talk to him about it and not ask a bunch of people who dont know the whole story. the worst that could happen is that youll break up big deal youll find another or it will give you a chance to better yourself away from a guy.. i hope i dont sound rude in anyway i just really think that you will be more at ease if you talk to him about it. .

well my singles ward bishop totally disagrees i have an assignment in the ward since i cant really get called to a calling.. i dont know why my bishop would lie to me about the handbook.. i beleive him that its there.. but its like i do not feel the spirit in the home ward and before i went to singles ward i was going to go inactive because of how i felt nothing for it i mean i knew it was true i just never felt good about being there.. its not about my peers.. i have no problem having no friends its just the difference in spirit in the wards... everyone in all the other stakes can transfer there records out but mine.. i just dont understand.. why during my temple recomend interview i was pretty much wasw made to feel like that im not doing anything good in my life and i wont get any revelation for not doing good.. the only thing wrong i do is feel the spirit at the singles ward.. i respect my bishop i do... i just need help understanding it all..

so i attend the singles ward but my bishop is really getting on my case about it.. i love my home ward dont get me but i do not feel the spirit there we have no youth no one to talk to other than my sister who is a year older.. i am 18. 19 in a couiple days and i understand the manual says that to stay in your ward until your 21 but why would 18 and up be invited to the ysa activities if we cant attend the ward. i do not feel the spirit in my home ward i have had the oppurtunity to be around people who understand exactly what im going through in the singles ward.. my testimony has grown so much being in the singles ward and my bishop has told me that i will not recive the proper revelation for something im doing wrong.. which made me really mad because i am actually going to church now how is that bad? i know my heavenly father has blessed me incredibly for this.. i respect my local leaders but if heavenly father is telling me one thing and bishop is saying something else im always going to listen to my heavenly father. and now i just feel like i cant even go to my home ward anymore because i dont want to be looked down on for going to the singles ward. please help me understand what to do.

yes but now its not just dreams!!! it freaks me out.. this is only something i read about in books or saw in movies.. there is other people who hasnt read my other post and so i explained the whole senerio...

i am 18 years old and it all started a couple years ago.. i have dreams that come true i know which ones come true and the ones that i catergorize always come true.. i dont make them come true.. they all come by surprise.. there all very detailed but not a dream in movie form its in clips like pictures but every picture would come with all these facts.. like id see a car i knew it was the morning i knew it was cold next pic sowed a hose and i knew i was alone. turns out later to find out it was my schools car wash for my swim teem.. then i had a dream of someone i was going to marry id see a picture or clip of a lady i knew it was his mom id see the hall way i knew his father passed away i saw him in the bathroom "everything but his face" and i knew we were engaged.. i saw me in a mirror i looked older and i new i was 20 years old. even this past week.. i was talking to my mom about fruit, she walks out of the room i get a thought my mom needs batteries and literally 30 seconds later she walks in asking me if ive seen batteries.. it honestly scares me sometimes that it happens because its like why me why do i need this.. why me??? if you have any advice to anything to help me figure this out please let me know anyone and everyone is welcome to help please! thank you guys..

you are only hurting yourself by not talking to the bishop.. he is there for guidence and you shouldnt be hiding from your wife anyways.. maybe your wife had to be confronted.. sounded to me that you had no plans in telling her.. you wife deserves to be confronted when you have concerns about her.. youll lose trust if you dont..

wow thanks that was sweet.. wow thank you that is an excilent point.. i never really understood faith until right now it just alll clicked.. i mean i always had it i just never knew why.. thank you so much!

thank you so much for that.. i love that quote i told him about his faith and he said if its true i dont need faithh but thats the thing thats what holds it together till your proven it while you pray.. i know he will come back to the church its just a matter of time he was just talking about god to me the other day.. thank you for sharing your experience its nice to know that other strive to look for the truth to.. thank you so much.

thank you sooo much for this.. you have helpped me tromendously.. i know all i have to do is wait.. he has all of his family in high callings in the church so i wouldnt doubt hell come back.. its just exguasting waiting.. i wont stop being his friend i know that as a fact..thank you again i cant express my graditude enough for what you have said...

thanks but this has been going on for 6 months now and i prayed everyday every chance i could for him went to the temple and fasted.. i most deffinatly will not stop being his friend.. but nothing more unless things change..

thanks to all those who helped i just today broke it off for good.. i deserve better.. and he cant offer me everything that i deserve and ill move on but thank you agian everyone..

oh man your parents arent required to love you its unconditionall just like the way god loves you.. they dont have to try to love you its just there... and your parents arent greiving that your not in the church they just want whats best for you and since the church has made them so happy throught the years they want that for you too.. and since you are here asking these questions about the terestrial and celestrial kingdoms lets everyone here that you dont completly think this church is false.. i know it 100 percent true in all aspets.. and im only 18.. but to answer your question.. yes if your parents are in a higher kingdom than you they can visit you but they are going to be really busy doing there own work up there rendering there own kingdom..

i used to be exactly like you... my high school years i thought the same everyone is out having fun im not there cause i have church.. but as i found out later in life my friends thanked me for not going out they said i was the reason why they came back to church.. or the nonmembers would tell me how glad they are that were friends because they honestly know they can trust me and most of them has even looked into the church and realized something different about me.. it is hard but in reality its not fun you feel cheap aftetrwards and of no worth...read your scriptures as much as you possibly can and pray to your heavenly father for the strength you need to over come your trials.. he will never give you a trial you cant handle.. you sound like a good guy dont let the world bring you down even for a second.. youll be much happier in life trust me..

i did back off we actually broke up and he went away for the summer and hardly talked.. he was the only one always trying to talk to me.. and he came back home just for me and now wants me back we went on a couple dates and now im sceptical on what i should do hes an amazing guy.. and it always seems like i fall for the guys that i have to fix.. but i dont know if i can fix this one.. and thank you i have been working on my self reading the scripture everyday and praying every second i can to have my heavenly father as more of a friend to me.. right now my life is the church sure i have other things like work and school but im in love with the gosple..

what do i do when this guy im with decides that he doesnt think the church is true cause of the fact that there are no facts.. and he th9inks that him feeling the spirit is just his emotions i do not know what to do and i need help from you guys i love the church with all my heart it is the best thing in my life and im so greatful to be aprat of something that is bigger than anything we could imagine.. i have prayed and prayed i read my scriptures as much as i can about 3 times a day 5 to 6 chapters and i dont feel like i have gotten an answer i have said yes and no to myself in weather or not to leave him... he always told me that what ever he finds to be true he will stick with it but hes just a mess right now and i never know what to say when he talks about it.. please any advice is very much wanted.. thank you

i never thought of that before... i do need to prepare now and ive been way to caught up in the dream thank you for that reminder.. much of what you said reminded me of my patriarchal blessing... i read it ever sunday.. maybe i should now thank you for those lovely reminders...

wow thank you for that its nice to hear im not alone in this.. its not like im notbeing asked on dates constantly its just i dont have the urge to go on one with someone else. its hard after have the dream.. nane of my family understands and im constantly pressured to date.. maybe one day ill break haha

i am not on medication and i have had other dreams like sitting next to a hose and a looking at a car in the distance i was completely alone and later to find out i was there for a car wash with my swim team. maybe that one was so i wouldnt be afraid being alone in the dark but amazed that it is coming true.. thank you for all you have said i really appreciate it and i know that god is the only one who can really help me through this..thank you

i will thank you so much you have helped me tremendously! thank you again im going to read it right now. thank you

thank you so much for thinking so! it means alot

do you really think its a gift ive prayed about it went to the temple for hours and read the scriptures to find answers but nothing

thank you... i just dont know if im going crazy or what like why me. now i dont want to date anyone because of him.. and i dont even know him yet!