Really

The church has most likely been holding a symbolic gun to his head for years.

That point i agree with. However, I assure you none of the advice telling him he must immediately come clean to a seemingly abusive wife because its "gods way" isn't helping his already deeply emotional situation.

Some of you need to grow up and accept that the church isnt everything and Twort should follow his heart not all your insane antics. Life is to short to live in misery. Stop ruining others lives and start living your own