- I was not trying to imply fanaticism, but it seems to be what she is busying herself with instead of facing the problem (She does know there is a problem, just does not want to talk about it). - Well so far you have offered at least one bit of advice, I am not looking for an indisputable answer to all of their problems, just looking for a few good ideas, or possibly people who have had similar stories and how they dealt with it. - As I mentioned in the OP, My friend is the daughter. She actually came to me in confidence to seek advice... Seeing as I am not a Mormon, things are entirely different when speaking of religion and even marital business. I will not be in contact with either of the parents, I will simply be relaying information to Michelle as a way to help. - Michelle would like to do more than stand by and watch her parents grow cold. I would agree with her that at least talking about ways to help is a start. I was actually involved in confronting my own father about his substance abuse issues. It is true that people can not help others without their consent, but I have seen where just a little consideration goes a long way. Thank you for your input tho. :)