RadDad

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i read with interest your problem. the first thing i did was check to see what country you live in. your profile says usa. yet, you said you read an article in the liahona, which leads me to believe that you are from a foreign, possible non-english speaking country. it would lead me to wonder if some of the communication problems are cross culture or cross language based. still, if he really let you go sleep in the car and he got so mad when you mentioned an affair, it seems that i have to agree that he is abusive. he is a problem wracked man and needs help.i agree that you both, or just you need counciling. even if he will not go, it will help you. he may not be worth keeping, but you need to do what you can to make yourself feel good about you, so you can do and feel what the Lord wants you to do.

you sound like you have a pure desire to do what is right. good for you!!! that is the first step all done. the one thing that i caught is that you have not accepted callings that put you in the forefront. it is just my opinion, but i believe that the Lord has seen your desires and given you the answer to your desires through a calling that would lift you. stop turning them down. let the Lord run the church. He will call you where He wants you and give you the inspiration to be strong and fulfilled. I too am a convert and have had more leadership positions that i ever thought possible. the Lord has guided me through each of them.He will you too.

you mentioned health care. i am on staff at a hospital that pays for continuing education. become a CNA, start working and work up to RN as you go. if the time comes that you are blessed with children, you can work evenings or nights part time to keep the skills up and still be a great mom.

no prob

they walked

okay all you self righteous, holier than thou, bang the drum on the street corner and make sure the world hears me tell someone they are terrible-ers. this was stupid. i did not make you listen to the entire interview. a young woman was a married woman who was younger than i. that is more and more people now days. i was not inappropriate....she asked if my wife and i used them. she asked if it was wrong for her and hubby. i hope you feel better. i am insulted that you all feel i was inappropriate in my use of the temple recommend interview. my point is ignored so you can make a puppy war with words.

was asked that by a young woman in a temple recommend one day...i simply responded if frilly lingerie was against he rules, that i would need to be released.

do not remember the talk or the implication, but i believe there are laws irrevocably decreed in heaven......

if anyone at all checks your recommend it will be a member of the other ward bishopric. no questions will be asked. just go, participate and enjoy.

i really am sorry i ever asked the question

Moses lived before Christ and as such had to be translated so that he could appear and perform a physical ordinance on the mount of transfiguration. Once Christ had been resurrected, the bands of death were broken and Moses could be resurrected with the faithful saints that slept from the time of Adam to the resurrection. He then appeared to Joesph Smith as a resurrected being.

guess the mods can delete this whole thing...i thought it sounded interesting. guess i was wrong.

Hi all! I love studying the signs of the times and the Second coming of the Savior. I like speculating. I realize, recognize and acknowledge that "no man knows the day or hour" I do not claim to know. I just wonder where some of you think we are standing. I challenge you to fill in the following blanks. 1- I think the economy is going to fall apart and we will need to live off of our year supply by the year _______________. 2- I think the gathering at Adam Ondi Ahman will happen by the year __________. 3- I would be surprised if I woke up Jan 1 ___________ and the second coming had not happened. myself...I would answer: 1- 2014 2-2020 3-2021 no prophecy claimed. no special insights professed. just a gut reaction and I would be interested to hear yours.

lollypop, your quandry gave me a few minutes to think on the principles of the the Holy Ghost and to think of times i have been helped. I have found that Heavenly Father, as a wise and loving parent, will never lead me down a road that will hurt me or lessen me. every time i have received revelation, i have grown or expanded. from reading your post, it would seem that you cannot grow by the feelings you had. 1- a return to this young man will return you to a pre church activity relationship, which could be disasterous to you. 2- this young man has expressed that he will never love you, thus making it a painful experience for you. 3- you feel confused and wonder if it was really a spiritual experiendce. number 3 is a big teller. if confusion, fear, pain, doubt etc are in your heart, you can be assured that the feeling is not from God. kneel down and tell Heavenly Father that you felt that He told you to contact the young man and that you will do it id He confirms it to you. you have the right for a confirmation of all that you receive. (ex: nephi and laban) the psychological problems that this young man has should scream "RUN, RUN, RUN!!!" to you any way. if you were my daughter, that is what i would scream. part of the story, that his care givers will not allow him to get involved romantically, just sounds like a lie. i am in the medical field and i do not see many people out on the street that have a problem that would require such instruction or structure. if they need that close of "allowing" they would be in a lock down facility. i am fearing for you and advise that you "do a joseph" (see joseph and potipher's wife) and get yourself out of there. you may be a lollypop, but do not be a sucker

my friend, you and your wife need to work together on this. i am sure that you love each other...divorce is not the answer. have you studied and found out how to help your sweet wife orgasm so that she feels the need to have it again and again? if not, you have your homework. you have to want her to have a climatic experience more than your own. does your wife understand that God made the body to be able to react to the sexual experience? in the next life only those in the highest degree of the Celestial kingdom will have sex. the rest will be "single, sexless and separate" there is a celestial as well as a physical reason to learn the art of climax. every person you could marry will have their own set of problems or actions that you cannot stand or tolerate. trading your wife in for another woman just sets you up with a whole new set of problems. learn, my brother, accept your wife for who she is and to help her to grow. if nothing else, you made a covenant in the temple and "God will not be mocked" you owe it to your self and your child to relearn to love your wife and make it work. this question of to divorce or not is very black and white......do not...you will regret it.

no serenity.....the problem was smooth....things went bumpy....wonderful bumps....no more smooth!!!

congrats on the new chest. i hope it does what you expect. i will admit, however that the biggest red flag i saw in the original question was when you said that you wear goodwill clothes, no make up and do not dye your hair. i fully realize that these by themselves do not make the woman, but i think that shows an unhealthy desire to "look humble" you are married because you r hubby thought you a beautiful woman. i bet you always had a "do" and make up when you were courting. you need to feel beautiful. i think that would be helped with a little make up and hair dye if you prefer it. your hubby sees your face more hours a week then he does your chest. and you do too!!!...you brought it up,so i know you believe it. enjoy the implants, help your hubby with his problem, but do the right thing for yourself too....make up, hair and clothes are not too expensive....and yu afforded the implants...get a girl friend and go shopping!!!!

my daughter who is a young adult fiction writer had a book that was #1 on the ny times bestsellers list, she was living in utah during the vote on prop 8 in california. the store she was scheduled to do a signing in that was in san fran cancelled because of the church stance on prop 8.

i buy pizza once a month. it costs a little, but they like it. i also am their friend and learn about their families etc. occasionally one of my nurses says it is an extra pizza day, ir that the staff could sure use some mexican food or something like that. too often we put ourselves ahead of others so they need to think a little token is special. be a friend. do the work with them. be a part of their lives. remember we are all REALLY brothers and sisters.

i have a grand daughter just a little younger who is not even on the charts. her mom (mrs. 3 words) tells her she is wonderful, etc and expects her to do her best...great kid. able to handle and just smiles the first 2 weeks o school till the kids realize they cannot rile her and go on to some other kid to pick on.

okay...i work in the health field...i see this every day. first problem is that mom is focusing on the problem. you need to realize what she has and not commiserate with her. when she complains that she is teased and says "such and such said i was short", you need to say, "well you are!" my daughter always says "deal with it" sometimes she just says "3 words" and we realize what she means. i was 4'8" tall as a freshman in hs. my twin sister was 5'2". and i am male. i honestly do not remember THAT MANY people teasing me. i would bet there is some super exaggeration going on(yes, i mean on her part because she loves to blame the problems on them and it probably allows her to feel bad without owning her other problems.). and the boys who tease her probably like her and the others find her cute and the girls that tease her (again prob very few of them) might even be jealous. the truth is that kids tease to get a reaction. if they were not then it would end. these kids see her every day. do you really think they forget she is short over night? she is over reacting and you need to get to the root of her frustration. my bet is that it has nothing to do with height. meanwhile, YOU need to change your attitude and not be an enabler. rough? maybe, but it is the truth as i see it and i spend my days with parents that tell me how smart beautiful, ahead of the class and better than the other kids. most of these kids are underachievers and troubled. most of the time the parents are enablers. time to step up to the plate mom....your question is enablers 101....please do not further this path.