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They need some marriage counseling quick. I stopped going to church with my husband because he wouldn't talk to me anymore. When I went back, he stopped going because he was mad at me and God for not giving him kids. We all have our reasons, but the honest truth is, we don't go where we don't feel the love. Whatever you do, please keep going to church and asking God for help, its the only way you can ensure the best result whatever it will be.

You're not alone, other husbands definitely have this issue and I am still looking for the best answer myself. As the wife that had fears and and inability to have children later, I'd just say make sure to sit down and talk about reasons for your desires together "EARLIER" not later and really make sure that you both understand and can try make each other as happy as possible. No two people will ever be perfect, we have to overcome alot of painful things to stick together. If she has fears, then she might want to get counseling to start working those sooner.

I love gungor, if only my marriage wasn't in MLC right now, his advice would be awsome for us. He has a pod cast too if you go through itunes called "mark gungor radio show". It's a little direct so for adults only, but if you can handle it, it's fun and informative. Fresh ideas responding to real emails from couples.