DanialHayes

It was something i asked for when we met, For one of her parents or a friend to be there with her for safety.I was not firm enough on that She did show up alone. I do realize to her parents i am just a guy from the internet which is taboo to start with (was for me too) I wanted the chance to prove myself to be the kind man in their eyes as their daughter already sees me as. I am a gentle man, somewhat quiet. when we started talking about dating (friends for nearly a year first) I had told her many times that i wanted to meet her parents. I want their approval too. My hiccup here is i am unsure that if some of the happenings are faith related. Or simply due to the fears of any good parent. I believe god does everything for a reason. Even the car wreck that nearly took my life in 02. I simply need guidance to give this the best chance possible. There is no better place to get guidance than from faith, and a trust in god. Those who walk in that path as well.

Well to introduce myself, I am a 27 year old Christian, who over the last year and a half has fallen in love with a Mormon girl she is 24, has had a rough life so far, she is recovering from leukemia, her last boyfriend took advantage of her ( they were engaged) cheated on her and got a 14 year old girl pregnant. So i knew i was at a disadvantage but feel this is true. Enough for me to buy a diamond promise ring to give her once we met ( i truly believe we would have had that spark & still do) . Im not a man that wants to go fast. I am not a man looking for sex. my morals say that is something that is done in a strong marriage. I had planned a week to visit her recently. I bought a plane tkt took a week off of work. I went to her. Yeah i had fears i knew she did.. as agreed upon she picked me up at the airport & took me to my hotel. (i gave her the control of where i would be by not getting a rental car). she dropped me off and was supposed to come back for dinner, never did. I was hurt, confused and possibly a bit angry even if i dont want to admit that . I changed my ticket and flew back out only after being there a day. I got a couple msgs that said " death in family she couldn't see me" I come to learn that due to her parents, she was stopped and could not come back. (she lives at home currently). I dont feel that she has lied to me before this. but my trust s broke. I am considering writing her parents appealing for their blessings to meet her again. I want to give this a shot but i admit its truly hard being 1000 miles away from someone you love, and feel its denied by them or those who have the authority in her life. I want to learn about the Mormon faith, i have done a fair amount of reading. I cant commit to converting though i will say that 95% of my beliefs do match what i have read . Any advice in this is welcome i thank you Danial Hayes