I am really sad about the experiences of some posters on this thread. People shouldn't treat dogs that way, nevermind people.
I just have to say that so many women are not like this at all. I don't think I've ever belonged to a faith community like the ones mentioned, and I hung out with other women/girls mostly. This could relate to my own low threshold for drama and self-righteousness. Just not interested. And while I've only been to one LDS Sunday service, I don't remember those women tearing each other down either. (Talking about their own general unworthiness, yes, but not others'.) Then again, maybe I was the one being talked about. That never would have occurred to me if not for this thread.
Anyway, it's sad. My LDS friends are some of the nicest folks on the planet.