little_dog

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  1. My fiance is super attentive to my need and I to his. We have a very strong, communicative relationship. He began enforcing this because of 2 things. We are both advocates of the 5 Love Languages and his favorite analogy, which is this; I life guard tries to rescue a drowning person. That person begins to struggle and fight against the life guard, causing him to begin to drown as well. The life guard will swim away to save his own life, then try to rescue the swimmer again. Usually the swimmer will recognize the help and acquiesce to the aid of the life guard. But had the life guard not taken the time and space to ensure self preservation, both would have drowned. There is definietly something to be said about taking care of yourself enough so you can take care of those you love as well. And if all are communicative about needs, then everyone can work for the same goals, be happy with themselves, and be happy and willing to help others :) Sorry for the lengthy response, just my 2 cents
  2. My friend (really, he's a guy in my old singles ward) does temple work every Thursday afternoon. But my friends and I all know that he is not worthy. Are the people he performs work for the dead for penalized or are their ordinances diminished because of his unworthyness?
  3. Thank you for your advise everyone. You've given me some hope and courage that I desperately needed. Namaste :)
  4. Ok, cheesy thread title, but hey! My name is little_dog! I am an LDS member and got bored at work. So here is where I ended up :) Pleaseure to meet you all!!
  5. I am engaged to be married in December. However, I had sex before I met my fiance and have yet to see a bishop. I have prayed, read my scriptures, attended all my meetings and recieved confirmation from Heavenly Father that I have been forgiven. But my sister-in-law knows who I had sex with and approximately how long ago and will not let the topic die. Can I still get sealed in the temple to my love? Or do we have to wait, even though I know I've been forgiven and everything is going right?