I am new to the forum and I wish I would have been around here in April to comment. I Completely understand where you are coming from! I have always struggled in RS and I am not sure why "exactly." I even taught a few times in RS, but I have never felt a part of RS, or that I fit in or even welcomed there. I did the going for the lessons, but I guess there are just things that get under my skin. We bought a house in a different city about 4 years ago and I thought it would be good to get back into RS. I went and was involved with VTing and everything. But I tell you what, I guess my previous RS pres talked to my new RS pres and told her stuff about me I guess and pretty soon the RS sisters are being jerky to me and everything. I know how we are just supposed to go and blah blah blah... sorry but that is how I feel. I also refuse to have VTs but for now I accept the card that the sister over sending cards to whomever is sending.
I don't know if the person who started this thread is still here, but I want you to know I do REALLY understand.
On a side note I have had a few miscarriages and was never able to have children and we did not adopt. And yes, sometimes the looks and comments are more than I can take.