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It's good that iinarihoudai got a temple recommend. I would like others to respond. I wouldn't label them as "liberal Mormons" or anything like that, but the following is what I addressed:

Here's a great article about the apostasy: Early Signs of the Apostasy - Ensign Dec. 1984 - ensign Also this: Apostasy and Restoration - general-conference

ADD runs in my family. I wish you the best.

To follow-up on what Pam said, the Church stated: That's the same page I referred to above.

It is very sad that he won't consider meds. If he were near-sighted, would he refuse corrective lenses?

The Divine Institution of MarriageI am seeing questions that have already been answered by the Church. Concerns about tolerance and love have already been addressed. All you have to do is read what the Church has published. We are talking about weakening the entire social fabric. Marriage and family are all about rearing children. There is no sufficient reason to define new forms of marriage. Allowing same-sex marriage "constitutes a serious threat to marriage and family." Some here are calling for tolerance. "The Savior taught a much higher concept, that of love." We do not have to tolerate or condone transgression in order to love! Stop talking about how SSM "will not affect the institution of traditional heterosexual marriage in any way." Talk about "how it will affect society as a whole over time, including the rising generation and future generations. The "dilution of the traditional definition of marriage will further erode the already weakened stability of marriages and family generally." There is more in that official publication of the Church. It answers the important questions and plainly states how SSM would be harmful. What more do you need? Follow the Brethren.

I am in favor of denying marriage to same-sex couples (which is not a right), as is the official position of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. To both of you, interracial marriage is not the issue we are discussing.

Yes, I am part of the majority who have voted to keep marriage between a man and a woman only. I don't think it's persecution. It is not loving to encourage or enable hurtful behavior. Individuals can be loved without supporting all of their actions.

That is the great mystery! Some say that he appears on high value stamps in Sweden, and that he is illegal in 17 U.S. states. He once brought a knife to a gunfight, just to even the odds, and he has won the lifetime achievement award...twice. Who is he, indeed.

I disagree. The activists supporting SSM seek to impose it on everyone else in the sense that they want such relationships to be officially endorsed and recognized. The majority of people do not want to endorse and recognize such unions, and don't want their states to do so. Why can't those people be left alone?

The message and method are both from the First Presidency. Have you read this lately: The Divine Institution of Marriage

Thanks for that response. I see it this way (I added emphasis): The Divine Institution of Marriage

California and Same-Sex MarriageIt says "Marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God, and the formation of families is central to the Creator’s plan for His children. Children are entitled to be born within this bond of marriage." Isn't defending a child's entitlement enough of a reason? Is anyone here more enlightened than the First Presidency?

You didn't point out how supporting Prop 8 (and similar laws in other states) is "forcing people to adhere to our belief system."

The Church is not rejecting anyone over this. The rule is the same for everyone. Live the law of chastity.

iinarihoudai, please don't go around accusing people of "forcing" others. Others can fornicate all they want - I simply don't support sanctioning such behavior by giving it legal status. I am not forcing anyone to live the law chastity.

Can you explain how supporting Prop 8 is forcing people to adhere to our belief system?

Your bishop, as a Judge in Israel, told you to move on. Do it! The guilt might not go away quickly, but just move on.

Adult ADD / ADHD: Signs, Symptoms, Effects, and Treatment Adults with ADD/ADHD often have difficulty staying focused and attending to daily, mundane tasks. "He wakes up, goes straight to the living room, and turns on the PS3. He comes home from work and turns on the PS3." While you’re probably aware that people with ADD/ADHD have trouble focusing on tasks that aren’t interesting to them, you may not know that there’s another side: a tendency to become absorbed in tasks that are stimulating and rewarding. This paradoxical symptom is called hyperfocus. When you have adult ADD/ADHD, life often seems chaotic and out of control. Staying organized and on top of things can be extremely challenging—as is sorting out what information is relevant for the task at hand, prioritizing the things you need to do, keeping track of tasks and responsibilities, and managing your time. Many adults with ADD/ADHD have a hard time managing their feelings, especially when it comes to emotions like anger or frustration. "I felt he wasn't mature enough to handle supporting a family." Adults with ADD/ADHD often experience career difficulties and feel a strong sense of underachievement. You may have trouble keeping a job, following corporate rules, meeting deadlines, and sticking to a 9-to-5 routine. Managing finances may also be a problem: you may struggle with unpaid bills, lost paperwork, late fees, or debt due to impulsive spending. "and who was just plain irresponsible" "I feel like he needs to grow up and take responsibility for this family. He seems to only care about his half." The symptoms of ADD/ADHD can put a strain on your work, love, and family relationships. You may be fed up with constant nagging from loved ones to tidy up, listen more closely, or get organized. Those close to you, on the other hand, may feel hurt and resentful over your perceived “irresponsibility” or “insensitivity.”

This might help: Approaching Mormon DoctrineI don't think it's official doctrine that parents can save their children no matter what. That just doesn't fit with doctrine about sin and punishment.

Honestly, I was pretty darn close to being agnostic a couple years ago. I was then reminded of previous revelations I've had. Members of the Church seek guidance to many different degrees. I guess some people take it too far. I think people want to be guided, but not forced, so we still have agency. I actually need to pray more.

SHOW ME SOME EVIDENCE. It is sad (and wrong) that anyone would advise another to dismiss the Holy Ghost, who is a member of the Godhead! Since the bible teaches that we need to discern between good and evil spirits, other churches seem to say ALL spirits should be avoided. Please consider these:Neh. 9:20 Thou gavest also thy good spirit to instruct them... Ezek. 36:27 And I will put my spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes, and ye shall keep my judgments, and do them. John 14:26 But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you. John 16:13 Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth... Acts 7:51 Ye stiffnecked and uncircumcised in heart and ears, ye do always resist the Holy Ghost: as your fathers did, so do ye. Acts 13:52 And the disciples were filled with joy, and with the Holy Ghost. 1 Cor. 2:13 Which things also we speak, not in the words which man’s wisdom teacheth, but which the Holy Ghost teacheth; comparing spiritual things with spiritual. 1 Cor. 12:3 ...no man can say that Jesus is the Lord, but by the Holy Ghost.

I Have a Question - Ensign Apr. 1976 - ensign

Respond to my post!Regarding the foundation, I would say that we also need walls, doors, windows, a ceiling, etc. The building was not done. That verse just really doesn't preclude modern-day prophets. The modern apostles are special witnesses. We actually do not know if all or some of them have an "eyewitness."

The perception is that those marching in such parades fully support the behavior. I think it's unwise and love can be shown in other ways.