Thanks for the replies. It truly is becoming my own hell now. I'm confused why though. Why would I feel like everything was ok, more than just in my own head, I was close to the Spirit again and felt its influence in reading scriptures, going to the temple, in guiding my life. I felt like a normal, repented, fully-active member. Why the sudden change? And I guess my other big question is about going to the bishop. When I was younger (early teen) I had to go to my bishop about an issue with seeing some pornography. I felt horrible and all the things he told me about how to repent and how to feel I had already thought of and already felt. I didn't feel any different or any more repentant than the harrowing up of my own soul made me feel. Why will this be any different? What is it about going to the bishop that will get me forgiveness that I can't do on my own? I am planning in going regardless, but since this will likely end my marriage I need to know that there is something I will get out of it more than I can get from my own repentance between me and the Lord.