shewerewolf1994

I suppose you're right :)

@Bini: lol yea im pretty excited myself

@Backroads: That is the plan

@Backroads: I've been told that by my sisters and my mom lol!

@all who replied: Luckily there is going to be a sort of "auction" with canned food and it was suggested to the relief society (and probably the preisthood as well) that you could put yourself up as a prize to be dated (so to speak) so Ill do that. I would rather obey the bishops council first instead of jumping in headlong though. I think that is the best decision for now. There are other guys that (i can see it in their body language and face) that would like to date me but they see my "friend" with me all of the time and end up not asking me out because of the "image" that we are both presenting. My "friend" thinks its funny but it makes things complicated for me. Its easy for him to say that cause he can just go ask out a girl but its difficult for me cause I have to wait and see if a guy will ask me out.

Thanks for the support but the real question is what is holding him back? Its like he is waiting for something to happen but I don't know what it is.

What does a DTR talk mean? If its a realtionship talk like asking where we are at I've done that twice now. But, he knows how I feel.

Yes I am 18 but he is 27 and I know how that sounds but we get along very well.

Okay so I met this guy in October and I really like him a lot. But, when the bishop talked to both of us to check our tithing he talked to both of us about what we were doing together (because we had been seen together a lot) and that we should date others instead of being a steady and committed relationship. I dont know how to explain this. But, since then, we have been hanging out every night for at least 2 1/2 weeks and I don't think either one of us has asked anyone else out, much less want to, but we have been flirting with other people (and this is my theory) because neither one of us wants to disobey the bishops advice. Plus, everyone in the ward says that we should date seriously and that it DEFINATELY looks that way on the outside but, when we talk to other people he always refers to me as his friend but it really isn't. Considering how much we hang out together (we always have fun together though so no complaints there) and that we hug each time one of us has to go home for the night, really, it is a couple relationship but without kissing or hand holding. Idk what to do or make of the situation. I would love to be in a serious relationship with him but at the same time I do need to date others but I dont want to and I dont think he wants to either considering how he hasn't asked any other girl out because I've been hanging out with him for 2 1/2 weeks straight (at least). Its frustrating to me to see a guy that I really like and that the relationship is so complicated already. So I think to myself, "Is he waiting for me to do something about it?"