SisterGraceLDS

I'm turning 43 next month and have never married. Been an active, temple going member of the church for over 10 years.... I just live in an area where there are literally NO singles. While I've always felt the Lord would take care of me in the next life, I didn't care I never got asked out. Now, I've met someone and we are engaged.... but he has been married/sealed before. I'm facing questions like- do I want to marry him in the temple at all? I don't want his ex wife in my marriage now or in the next life. And I don't share well. So wouldn't it be best just to not marry? Or, could I get a civil marriage for companionship to someone who isn't a member, or a member who isn't temple worthy..... and just be companions? I have older children and can't help but wonder why in the heck would I want to be sealed without my children? So just know- trust in the Lord. It is HIS plan for you to not be alone; however, it could be meant to be that you walk this earth alone for you may just have the absolute bestest husband in the next life. One who you'll jump for joy you didn't settle for someone else during this life. Hang in!

Be careful who you date. Date only those you would marry. For you could end up falling in love. Choose wisely.