Absolutely not. God is a loving and just God. He won't punish you for the sins of your husband. If you remain faithful you will be exalted. He will make a way for your kids to be sealed to you.
Even when our kids leave the house we still have a responsibility to teach them. You have every right to be firm with him and tell him that what he's doing is wrong. Allowing him to do it is condoning his behavior, and that's not acceptable.
Ever notice how the cultural acceptance of a made up word lands that word as part of the official language? 'Sticktoitiveness', 'spelt', and 'bling' are all in Webster's dictionary.
I'm aware of that now, but she prefaced it by saying Utah shouldn't be capitalized. She said "capitalizing words that shouldn't be capitalized" instead of "not capitalizing words that should be capitalized." It didn't make sense the way she worded it.