I smiled at the specific to do app because there really does seem to be so much to do! My advice would be just take things a step a time and enjoy it. I'd recommend the institute manuels the book of mormon one, new and old testements etc they are great guides to have while you read the scriptures. These can be bought at the temple or your libraian at church might be able to get them for you or let you borrow them.
See if there is anyone going to the temple in your local ward and ask if you could go along too although you won't be able to go in just yet. It is lovely just to walk around the grounds and feel the spirit.
Don't worry too much about the language either. My husband is a convert. I remember about a year after his baptism he stood up and bore his testimony is sacrement meeting and said good morning brethren. I said sweetie do you realise brethren means the men and doesn't include the women. He he he. It doesn't matter really. Your learning and trying your best. The Lord loves your efforts and I love to hear about them. Keep being strong