Well at this point we've agreed to get counseling to see what can help. You can say I'm not man enough, or that I give into peer pressure easily but I don't. This case I did yes. Obviously we have issues. She tells me how unhappy she is all the time, I try to communicate but she is to stubborn to ever see outside of her view which always leads to me saying sorry and that she's right just to end the argument even though I don't really believe it. ITS always that way. She is consistently ragging on me and my family to her mom via text. I just feel like this is ridiculous. Physical intimacy is pretty much terrible. She consistently sorrows over past events in her life and when I try to comfort her she gets mad. I know all of you will say you are sealed so deal with it. I mean this is just plain bad. She cries herself to sleep all the time. I just think sometimes we should end the marriage before things get worse i.e. have kids.