It may sound strange but I found out about his drinking and pornography use because a voice told me to check the car and a computer of mine he was using. When I went into the car I found alcohol. When I went on the computer and looked at his history I found the porn. While I was on the computer he was acting very suspect, yelling at me why did I need to be on my own computer? I found it and confronted him. I am not at all perfect but I really believe I am doing many good things for him and our family. I don't raise my voice I am always there for him and my kids. I try to do things to make him happy, he has now accused me of being a "molly Mormon". Which hurts a lot, he is just as active as I. He tells me I'm not the same person he married, he's right when I married him I was inactive, partying and maybe he liked that better. But I was also in my early 20's and a college student. Once I had children I decided to give up bad behavior and repent.