Thank you. I'm shy plus my friends (the kind o friends that are like family) are not members, I HATE single activities because I get bored really quick. I would like a man who supports me, love me for who I'm a not with some idealistic image of what i am. I have MANY flaws, and hard working man, caring but not sofocating, with a profession - and with a respect for what I do as a professional- just a normal guy to get old with and spend eternity. Is that too much? Am I beign picky?