OK this is a good topic, ive been married for 2 years now and we treat everyday like its a first date, do you know puppy love, little notes, flowers, complaments, stuff like that. thats what we do all the time. as for me i love to play PC games, my wife loves them too so we play Titan Quest together and some first person shooters. lets face it there are some things she likes that i dont. and that goes both ways. but we both dont deny each other the things we like. for us Romance starts at marrage. some things he might like are - massage get some oils and candels, switch the TV off. what about a picnic you got to do something 1s a week that is special just the 2 of you, what about dancing lessons, your weekly early morning walk, nice time to chat. do something that will become a normal weekly activity. sorry going off the track abit, go for a picnic in the park and have a braai, here are some other romanic ideas :::: ----- Lovingyou.com: 1000s of Romantic Ideas