As several of the what appears to be very few men on this website have pointed out, it seems most the members who have at least commented on my post are females. Hence I probably will not and thus far have not gotten a fair shake of responses. I came onto this site and joined to get a non judgmental and un biased opinion from others as to what I needed to do to resolve the issues I am having with my wife. Members of the church are supposed to be non judgmental of others. But its pretty obvious some on this this site do not apply the same personal standards we are suppose to hold ourselves to in everyday life. Just a tidbit about what I have already said in my original post and comments thereafter, I have spoken to her in an non rude or attacking manner several times in the past. I didn't come into this marriage with any pre conceived notions she was solely responsible for the maintenance and up keep of the home. I don't treat her badly as some would suggest. I clean after myself and her out of frustration that she wont help. And I have suggest marriage counseling which she does not want to participate in. Venting frustration is completely different than treating someone badly. For those who believe I am this evil man who demeans his wife because she wont add to the help around the house, your are so far off base and wrong. But again it appears most of those who have read and commented on my post are female majority so I wont get any positive or helpful feedback. Thank you for the time you invested in reading my post, but I think I will seek guidance where I wont be judged by a bunch of females who are going to take sides no matter what.
