alilc

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  1. This isn't really about relationships but my friend and I got this app for fun. I've matched with a lot of guys but me being the shy girl around guys, I am SO nervous to say yes if they ask me on a date or to hang out. I am a super outgoing person, like really, but I've only been on one 1-on-1 date and it was horrible. Anyways, I just need advice on not being shy around guys. Thats the only thing holding me back. I am chill around my guy friends, but if it is an attractive guy, I flip. I'm not sure why I am posting this on here but I need some sort of advice. Help? I am not necessarily looking for a serious relationship but more of dates because I am new to Utah. Thanks y'all! <3
  2. I've liked this one guy for 5 years, but he moved two years ago. We kept in contact. There's a chance we could end up together; but even if we don't, it's okay cause he's such a great friend. I get to see him in a month. And I'll probably cry because of happiness and disbelief but since he doesn't feel the same I don't want to look dumb. Any suggestions on what I should do?(I have no clue what's going to happen)
  3. Welllll update: he texted me! And we've texted but not in depth at all. I actually have to keep the convo going cause he just gives one word replies, so, I'm honestly at the point where I want to give up on it. But I feel like I wasted those two years emailing him. I knew it would be different when he came home, but not this different. I bet He doesn't even want to meet up. I just want to give up on the whole thing. I feel dumb for being so invested in this situation it's just I reallllly care about him and I'm not sure about throwing it all away. But he really is putting in no effort so. I need advice, again. Thanks y'all are the best.
  4. Well, I totally understand that you need to give missionaries some time after they get home to adjust to normal life again. Its been close to a week and he posts on Instagram, but won't reply to my Instagram DM (direct message). My mutual "friend" (i use the finger air quotes because I do not think she has the best intentions of being my friend. She wants to tear him an I apart as friends) with him and I were talking and she said "Oh yeah, we've been messaging but he is taking it slow." And I totally get that, but then she said "Maybe you should just forget him." She literally said I should forget I ever knew him. I have emailed this guy for 2 years and known him for an additional year before the mission (Though we have not met) I can't forget him because he has helped me through SOOOO much. I have been overthinking and now I am under the impression he does not want to talk to me ever again. I know this isn't a big deal, but I guess my mind is going crazy because I know my message is in his inbox, but he is not replying, but Is to others. Any comfort or advice? I have prayed for help to just distract myself and not think about it, but, It is not working so well.
  5. I am not German. I just live here. I am from utah.
  6. This isn't really a topic, but, If anyone needs a smile, or a pick me up, I am here to help! I love making people happy, It really makes me feel so good inside. Shoot me a message or just comment on here. Y'all are fabulous.
  7. This isn't really a topic, but, If anyone needs a smile, or a pick me up, I am here to help! I love making people happy, It really makes me feel so good inside. Shoot me a message or just comment on here. Y'all are fabulous.
  8. This isn't really a topic, but, If anyone needs a smile, or a pick me up, I am here to help! I love making people happy, It really makes me feel so good inside. Shoot me a message or just comment on here. Y'all are fabulous.
  9. Can you Private message me somehow? Id like to talk about this more.
  10. He was in Texas before he left and I'm in Germany. But I move to Utah in less than a month and he is moving to Idaho
  11. Oh yeah I know. But we can be friends and if something happens and feelings grow, can my parents approve?
  12. True. true. I'll see him next month. I just want to be friends with him right now but I'm just confused on how to act.