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  1. @yjacket first off thanks to all of you for taking the time to respond to me. especially @yjacket. That's was a very genuine and well thought out reaponse and I promise you I will be using your advice. I'm going to do my best to give her the benefit of the doubt here. She texted me this morning asking if we could talk next Sunday. That's a long time from now and I'm suffering inside not having her. You are correct we have been together since she was in highschool and I was in the military over seas. We have made a lot of sacrifices to be together. I don't want this to end. I will never marry again if that happens. Her parents wouldn't believe me about anything I told them, although I do think they care about me. She supported me through so much. I just want her to be happy. We both live in Utah. She told me yesterday she is moving out and getting her own place. I have no friends or family here and would like to move back to Colorado if she chooses to be alone which my put another strain on this relationship. I just want to thank you guys again for responding to someone you don't even know for free. Part of the reason I chose to join the church was because of how I saw members treat each other. I really don't want to lose her. I will keep you all updated in case anyone is wondering.
  2. Hello everyone I will make this brief as possible and I will take ANY advice that helps save my marriage. Im a recent convert, my wife (gf at the time) had me investigate and I chose to join. We have been together for 6 years married for 1. She is 23 I am 26. Since getting married she has been doubting whether she made the right decision. She tells me she's depressed and unhappy. I am a person who worries about everything. I worry one day she will cheat or lie. My worst nightmare became my reality yesterday when I found a picture of another mans (you know what) on her snap chat. She struggled to take her phone before I could get. I went into a rage. I yelled I screamed i told her hurtful things, the worst part is I grabbed her shoulder and push her away from me a couple times to keep her from taking her phone back. I am devastated. She is the woman I trust and love and our history is deep and eventful. She is the reason I wake up. I love her more than anything in this world and I left appalled Speech less and in more pain than I could ever explain. Her parents do not believe she had been chatting with the man and had asked for any pictures from him. I confronted the man and he went on to tell me they had flirted and she said "I wouldn't mind getting a picture" she never opened the Snapchat from him I'm assuming out of guilt but she knew it was there. After a lot of yelling and crying and some physical contact and her phone getting broke in the process she has left to her parents. She explained to them she doesn't know the man and he sent that unexpectedly. She lied to them to keep her innocent image with her family. I talked to her father and explained that I talked to the man and verified my wife encouraged him. She even told him she wasn't married. He went on to tell me I should believe my wife only. EVEN THOUGH I CAUGHT HER red handed and confirmed this with the guy. I'm devastated she has left me and is moving out. She doesn't expect we will be together and I'm now feeling rather suicidal. Please help me anyone.