Dream Weaver

True I am assuming that, because how else can they get to them, children (let's say 14 and under) aren't really thinking about sex or "relationships", it is just not in their head yet, yes there may be infatuations, maybe crushes, but even then they are to young to handle any kind of romantic relationship, and if not romantic, then just a sexual relationship.....no way, way to young, immature, and even if they think they can handle it, they can't, and an older person should know this, and know better, thus crossing the line. Can't be consensual. I think this is why pedophiles are very dangerous, and in a completely different category than homosexuality. Great if they are not acting on it, but still scary, gotta protect the kids, because lines can become blurry then who knows if they can't resist temptation, if we don't protect the children?? Now I believe gays can be consensual and on the same page mentally and make informed decisions based on honesty and real attraction between 2 adults, I don't think they are predators, but I suppose there is always exceptions. I am completely taking my own orientation and religion out of these comments.

I agree, though can't get my head around it, doesn't make sense, but I guess not everything has to make sense.

You can't compare homosexuality to pedophilia, one is with consenting adults, the other isn't, pedophilia tries to trick/bribe kids into their life then pounce...not the same thing.

I don't think gayness is contagious, you can't catch anything from the microphone.

I also think LDS get married to young, actually I think many religious people get married to young. I think people change as they grow older, or maybe they just become more comfortable with themselves and more able to be themselves. Also younger people are more subject to peer pressure and fitting in (even in their 20's).

As a Christian female myself, I would like to have a relationship with a man of God, which to me means believing in the biblical scripture, (not the Book of Mormon), so if one is LDS and one is another Christian denomination, why can't you both read and study biblical scripture and pray based on biblical truth. The disconnect for me is the Book of Mormon. But LDS is supposed to be a "Christian" Jesus believing religion, so that should bring 2 people together that believe in Jesus being the savior...shouldn't it? Isn't that what all Christian denominations believe or supposed to be about??? That should be the common denominator. But I think many people and religions go off the tracks in their own direction.

Seeking perfection seems to be the Mormon way..but... By your/our own efforts, we are not even close to being worthy to stand before a holy God. This is the bad news that comes before the good news.........in this case, no garments can save you. Bible says “righteous acts are like filthy rags” (Isaiah 64:6), that “no one will be declared righteous in his sight by observing the law” (Romans 3:20), and that “all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23). If you will admit to these truths, open for the good news of the true gospel of Jesus Christ, that real righteousness only comes at the cross, where God exchanged our sin for the righteousness of Christ (2 Corinthians 5:21). No other righteousness can stand before God on Judgment Day. then you are well on the way to understanding true salvation. The bible should be your quide book before any other books such as BOM.....but then again I am not Mormon.

I am not LDS but have met many and they have been very nice and friendly, I guess things can be different in church. I go to a pentacostal church and they are far from serious, and we have many different races and colors. I was born Jewish and converted to Christianity. But remember people are human, no one is perfect no matter their religion, we are still in the body and won't be perfected until we go to heaven. Also you mention the Book of Mormon, what about the bible? All Christian religions should follow the bible. You seem to find things wrong with everyone, Methodist, Pentacostal, Mormon, etc.... You will find in this world what you expect to find. Here is a little parable.......... Couple stops at gas station, and asks attendant what people are like in this town, attendant says what are they like in your town, they say, they are nice, friendly, happy, warm, accepting, attendant says that is what you will find here. Later another customer asks same question, what are people like in this town, attendant again asks what are they like in your town, customer says they are mean, hateful, racist, unfriendly, and the attendant says that is what you will find here as well. Another When dogs are raised in puppy mills and aren't socialized, and then later adopted into a loving home, they react like they are still in a cage. They are hard to train and are frequently fearful of a loving humans, even after a long time of their humans demonstrating love and that they will not hurt them, sometimes it takes years or never for the dogs to finally relax and believe they are loved. Sometimes we are like that!!

I am struggling with the same issues, but I came to Christ later in life, and am very set in my own ways, and thinking. I keep going back to my own viewpoint, but then back again to the bible, back and forth. You haven't failed them, people are individuals and have a mind of their own and are influenced by the world whether you like it or not. If they are young they might just be going through a stage. You may try to shelter them, but life isn't always perfect, you may have a great life, but someday you, and your loved ones will die like the rest of us, so you can't hide forever behind the smile. Sorry I guess that sounds kind of harsh.....nothing wrong with a good positive outlook on life, as long as you are not unrealistic about the normal stresses and ups and downs of the average person. Nothing, keep supporting them and being a good example.

Subir, you sound like someone I met recently, but his story was a bit different. Be careful with the flirting, especially depending on what kind of work you do, do you flirt with your customers/coworkers/staff? If you are rich/good looking/powerful/spiritual/nice/friendly/funny, you are a hot commodity, and many women will have no problem trying to "get" you, even if you are married, some will even try to steal you away from your wife. That is something that can happen with you being flirty, maybe they see that as a green light, then you might be put in the position of having to turn them down, or become very uncomfortable around them. Women like attention from good looking men, makes us feel better about ourselves, but keep it innocent so you don't cross any lines and they can't accuse you of anything either. Daydreaming/fantasizing about others is a form of escapism, but when we realize they are not perfect (and come with there own set of problems) and won't fix us, you might be able to come back down to earth and think logically and do the right thing. I am not LDS, but am Christian, I am here because I met someone like you and he was just unique enough for me to want to know what LDS people are like. I hope that statement is not offensive to anyone, it wasn't meant to be. I know we are all unique and different. Don't say anything to the SIL unless you are willing to sacrifice everything for her. Don't do it...it can only hurt.