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  1. Guys, haha I just needed ideas of what to write in emails/letters because I didn’t know where to start. I truly appreciate all the concern and deep relationship advice about religion and how that could affect it in the future, but that’s really not what I was asking. Thank you for your time and comments though about it 😊 and all this talk about marriage is a couple years off haha, who knows what’s gonna happen in the next two years. I’m not writing to him so he’ll remember to come home and marry me whether I’m a member or not. That’s not at all what I’m trying to do and I feel like that’s what my comments has been skewed to be. I’m writing to him just to be supportive and encouraging because I love him as a person and I wish him the best. You’re all lovely and so willing to jump to my aid in answering things very straightforward, so thank you 💜 just wanted to get that all straightened out and clear haha.
  2. Not 100% sure right at this moment to be honest. There’s a definite possibility, but I mean a lot can change in two years so I guess we’ll see. I don’t wanna just stop all communication with him for the entirety of his mission, that’s for sure haha. I can see it definitely moving forward in the future, but who knows.
  3. Haha we were pretty seriously dating for several months before he left
  4. Sorry but it’s not your place to tell me what he might and might not want, pretty sure I know him better than you can guess and have actually talked with him about this. And it’s his choice to leave or not over something like marriage. And I don’t think it’s okay for you say that it would be “super sad” for him to make the decision to marry me just because I’m not religious. Thank you for your input though!
  5. I appreciate the concern with my relationship, but I’m not going to think twice about a future with someone over something like religion. He has come and gone from the church but ultimately decided it’s something for him, and fully understands my perspectives. I was not asking for advice concerning my relationship choices or whether or not I should keep in contact. This is not just “an old flame” from high school. Thank you for the advice and concern but it’s not the situation you are describing and trying to give advice for. Thank you.
  6. I grew up in the church, and up until about a year ago I was an active member. I am no longer active nor do I wish to be, it’s not something that works for me. The complicated side of that is I was seriously dating a boy who left on a mission recently and I have no idea how to write to him. I want to write to him and send him uplifting things and support him, but I don’t know what to write about considering I don’t believe in the same things as the lds church. So I don’t want to send the typical weekly miracles, favorite scriptures, uplifting Sunday school lessons, etc. because that would just be fake. So what do I write? He knows me, he knows I’m not active and don’t plan on being, and that’s been totally okay for a long time now.