AkaPatience

Like I mentioned, I'm new here, so I may not be doing this correctly...ie, not responding to each comment individually... My Stake Pres. definitely knows what page my H is on...he told me himself, " you realize he has one foot out the door..." our ward had a few changes back to back, (new Bishopric/new boundaries/another new Bishopric) around the time I had been in contact with my Bishop/Stake Pres regarding other issues and my H. So idk if his situation got passed on to the new Bishop or not, it seems not but honestly, idk how it works exactly. I have been a party to Ward Council meetings in the past and it seems as though this would have been made mention to the new Bishop. I would feel like I was at least "telling" on my H if I went to the Bishop, that's why I'm posing it here. Also, helping my H... this is going to sound harsh but that isn't my concern. I'm concerned about the ordinances. You can't help a narcissist.

First time here, so I might be doing this wrong but I think it's long overdue! Hello, I married my non member husband 35 years ago. He joined the church months later. He seemed eager and active for years but over the last 15 years has had issues with church history, etc... he has been quite vocal at church with his displeasure about many things. He doesn't wear his garments anymore, has no desire to have a reccomend, doesn't support/sustain the Brotheren, hasn't paid tithing in years...there's actually more, but I think you can get the idea... Here's my question: Should he be blessing the sacrament? Assisting with preisthood blessings for the sick? It doesn't seem right to me. I asked him what his response is when he's asked what religion he belongs to....he gave me a round-about answer.... I wish I could quote it, but he does not identify himself as L.D.S. even though he attends weekly.