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  1. Ouch, could you have sent that to me in a private message?
  2. Thank you thank you so much for your kind warm words. Thank you for helping me to be able to think about this better in a tough situation. My husband will take tomorrow off work for the meeting, he thinks the guy will be giving us a peace offering such as some money off, me, well, I'm a bit more less trusting than that. We were supposed to pay the workers a check but the manager said to hold off until tomorrow when he comes, so that is where my husband is coming to that conclusion. It has been a good time to be able to talk to our children about hanging an eternal perspective and for my husband and I to work on bettering our marriage etc... and strengthen our faith that all things work for our good and we are learning lessons even though hard things. (Especially.) And I found this message board that I am enjoying. 😁 I struggle with the turning the other cheek/where is the line? I want to warn others, but want to forgive...I so appreciate your insights. Thank you, thank you. It is nice to have a place to talk to others about the application of the gospel. Edit: You know, you are right, I am being bullied! And I think I'm caving and rethinking and being confused because they are insisting I am wrong and its weird because I was robbed! They are trying to lessen it and not take responsibility for thier business. I will pray to be strong for tomorrow. Thank you. ❤
  3. Hi! I'm new here, a Saint in Florida. I have a question I am hoping I can get some thoughts. We hired a contracting team who stole from us, we filed a police report, and I wrote a review online. It was 10pm when we found the electronics taken, and my knee jerk reaction with thier office being closed was to take it to my community online and let others be aware. We called the office in the morning and they had already read The review. The manager came into our home, we were thinking he was going to apologize but instead accused us of slandering him. ( Everything I wrote was true of course.) That accusation hurt more strongly, more deeply than the items that were stolen. They did not apologise and I was furious at the unbelievable way this was handled. Now they are sending an area manager out to speak with us and I am fearful of getting the same tretment. I don't want to let him in my home. I have been having panic attacks over this. My question is, what as a Saint is right? Should I have not written the review? Let him come and slander me? Upset me all over again when I am trying to heal from this? When do we turn the other cheek and when do we stand up for our rights? Thank you. ❤🙏