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  1. I took him on Sunday with my fiance and he was so naughty I ended up leaving with him half way through, because it really triggers my anxiety when lots of people look at me and he was drawing so much attention to us.
  2. He is paramedic, so he works in shifts and he usually has 2 Sundays free a month so I try to go with him on those Sundays, I don't go without him because I have anxiety I can't look away from him because he will get up and run for the door or throw things, it's a really stressful time
  3. We spoke a lot and he was really understanding, which I kind of expected him to be. I go sometimes but I find it really tough to get there on time and try to entertain my son ad focus on the speaker.
  4. Hi, it took me so long to re-find this thread. My partner and I are going to go for a civil wedding in November and whenever I am able to we are going to be sealed together.
  5. I had never been on a dating site before but I thought I had nothing to lose. I love him and I'm sure he loves me because he asked me to marry him. I told him yesterday that I don't have a temple recommend and he said it was okay but he wanted to know why, but then I think he could tell I was uncomfortable so he said I don't have to tell him. He asked me if I want to get a temple recommend, I told him I do. But I don't think he expects me to tell him everything about me not going to church and my son.
  6. Friend

    Hi

    I should have mentioned Friend is actually my last name
  7. Yes you're right I have to be truthful and see what happens
  8. I have anxiety about going to church, I always set my alarm and get clothes ready for church but on Sunday morning we never go. I think that unfortunately it will take me longer than that, but I am wanting to work towards it. This is what I hope will happen, but I don't know how likely it is
  9. I feel terrible about it but I wasn't expecting our relationship to last usually they don't so I never thought I would have to tell him the truth. I don't want him to leave me, which is why I haven't told him yet.
  10. Friend

    Hi

    Hi, I'm a member from when I was 11 but I never really grew my testimony but I have gone to church on and off for a while, but off for the last few years. I have a 4 year old son and I work in cyber security. It's nice to meet you.
  11. I became a member when I was 11 and I was the only member in my family, I've always been in and out of going to church. When I went to college I attended church regularly but I still wasn't really keen and I started to date someone I met at church and I fell pregnant with my son, we got married and within 18 months we were divorced. I never went back to church, last October I met my fiance on a dating app for LDS, I wasn't really honest with him about my inactivity in the church because I was worried he wouldn't want to be with me. I misled him into thinking I had a temple recommend, I feel really bad about it and I want to marry him. Some of my friends say he will still want to marry me now and when I am ready to be married in the temple we can do that then, but they aren't members and I don't think they understand. If you were engaged and thought you were going to be married in the temple would you be willing to be married and later be married at the temple? Also, I don't go to church at the moment but I would like to go again and I want to marry my fiance in the temple but it's not been a good time for me to go to church. What do you think I should do? And, I kind of fabricated that my son was conceived before I was married, I just didn't want him to judge me. Do you think I have to tell him?