Laurabread

I know this is a late, but I don't necessarily agree with those who have commented. Praying to God and talking to your spouse about supporting your BIL should be a priority, not thinking that its a problem in your marriage. You're newly married, so of course having your BIL live with you is going to feel like an invasion of your privacy. There is nothing wrong with what you are feeling. Its completely valid. But definitely keep in mind that our relationship with God is important. Ask Him for guidance because He definitely knows you amd what He is testing you on than the people who comment on this forem. Remember He loves you and is always there for you