I didn't know there was such a thing as GEMS - so I am better off for having read this topic!
I found Alaskagain's story inspiring. None of us are perfect and at first, I found the Relief Society archaic. I'm a single mother with a typically male job and quite happy to not be Harriet Home-maker, thanks very much. The first week I was there, we talked about flower arranging, knitting and sewing. I do none of those.
But - they were out to make life better for others. I was intruiged, so I returned. And they didn't want women to be opressed or unemployed. They agreed that in a perfect world, women would stay home and look after the babies, but this is not a perfect world and we do what we must.
I'm very pleased this topic is here because now I can subscibe to GEMS and maybe talk some Relief Society stuff with you guys? The ladies there are really nice, I'm just very shy about putting myself forward there.