Brie Cheese

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  1. Hello, thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts. I broke up with him for the best. It will take a little bit to get over it but it won't be the end of the world. But again, thanks for your words. It helped me a lot.
  2. I wish that may exist in the future... I don't want other people to go through what I've been through in this situation...
  3. Thanks for your honesty, and I read your other comments too. But you're right... I already know this. He's a good guy. He didn't go on a mission because he was already late to decide (20), and he was in his 2nd year at the university... I know how important it is for men to go on a mission. Still, if he decided not to go because he felt he wasn't prepared at that point, I want to help him to understand better about the gospel (he reads all church material from the library app, and he knows the story of the restoration and everything, but the problem is that he doesn't feel the doctrine) I went through those same problems before. Still, I kept attending church and trying because I knew the gospel gives us something positive to live a happier life. I have a strong testimony about the church in the present. I've been reading and praying, and I see he's still trying to feel something, to gain a testimony. But that takes more time for some people to find it. I know the reason why I want to get sealed in the temple with my future exaltation. But I want to help him to understand why it is that important for him in his life. It may be because I can be empathetic toward people's feelings. I also don't want him to be alone. But there's something true too. I tried everything, and if that doesn't change anything... well, I know what the answer is at this point. Thanks
  4. I am curious if this page is still working, but... here I go. We've been dating for almost two years, and we wish to get married after he graduates from college in two years. However, I told him I wanted to get sealed in the temple months ago. It's the biggest dream I have had since I was a kid. There was no problem with that topic, but later... he told me he didn't feel good sealing in the temple anymore. He doesn't feel welcome in the church. He didn't serve a mission, but I didn't care as long as he had his goal to be better as a person, morally and spiritually. He is the nicest and kindest man I've met in my life. He was with me when I needed someone in my hardest challenges, and he demonstrated that he is a good person with whom I'd like to share the rest of my life. I've been trying to help him find ways to feel something for months. But nothing worked. We get along so well, our bond is so strong, and he is someone worth it not to let go. We broke up for a couple of weeks last month to give ourselves a break to think better about what we wanted, but we got back together because we couldn't stand being without each other for that long. I don't know what options we have left if we want to be together without the risk of divorce due to this religious topic. Besides that challenge, we are so happy together. Do you think we should keep trying? Is it going to be even more challenging in the future? 😓