I agree with SMG , even if male members went on missions that dosen`t mean that they are going to be kind and nice.
And digitalbath ,like NateHowe,said u have some catch up to do! There are girls / women that dosen`t care if u are RM or not .
and like I said before - I would marry a guy that is not an RM .. so u see there are still girls that would marry a giu that is not an RM.. have faith!