I know my husband has a problem with smoking. I am sure he has gone to the temple while he has been struggling with this. I am also sure that if I suggested we go, he would still go even if he had smoked earlier that day. I don't want him to go because I am going if he is doing wrong. What do I do? Do I just say it's between him and the lord and if he feels like he should go then let him? OR Do I just not ask him to go and plan to go by myself. I went by myself yesterday. I just wish he would decide who's side he it on. HJe gets caught up in what everyone else is doing at work and is very impulsive. We have 6 kids and it makes me very sad.