I am going on 3 years. We have other stints that have lasted 1 and 2 years. It is a circle of constant rejection. We are active in the church have 3 wonderful children (Ages 2 - 7). Whenever I try to initiate I am told I need to lose weight or I need to help out more around the house etc. ( I do help out a lot BTW and when I try to improve the things she mentions she finds something else wrong). I admit we don't have date nights. In general we struggle with the basic things (Prayer, Reading the scriptures, FHE etc.). We also haven't been to the temple in a long time (we both have current recommends). There has been no issue of infidelity or addiction. I just don't know what to do. It seems like my spouse has no desire to engage in this part of our relationship and I rarely even try anymore because of the constant rejection. My spouse has become my roommate and doesn't even enjoy my company. I will live the rest of my life like this if I have to since Divorce is never an option. Both of our parents are divorced. Does anyone have any advice?