Ok, I am here because I am actually embarrassed to say anything to people who know me. My 12 year old son has been, unbeknownst to me, saying horrible, filthy things to his friends and the girls at school. This is not allowed in our home and I am very careful about the things that he watches on TV. In fact, the only reason I found out is because I called another mother to find out why her son was no longer friends with mine. She said, "I didn't want to tell you because kids will be kids." Come to find out, the things he has said at their house and in conversation with their son are downright disgusting. I am at a total loss. I have 4 grown children but this is a new one for me. What would you do? How would you handle it? We have discussions all the time about language and proper respect for sacred things. So, this caught me by surprise. And, to be honest, I was so very embarrassed when she basically had to say that her son has made a choice to stop being friends with mine because of the bad influence. I just don't know what to do...